Relationships and Love

Indonesia
February 20, 2007 8:40pm CST
In every situation in life you have a certain amount of control. So no wonder relationships frustrate us the most, because the one thing you can't and shouldn't control is another person's free will. Love and relationships make our lives fulfilling, so no wonder a lot of people come for readings to get answers on this subject.
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• Philippines
21 Feb 07
We control things, where they go, how they flow, and they do not complain regarding how we treat them. That only holds true for non living beings. To all those that breathe, this cannot be true. We make adjustments. This is why we exert more effort in taking care of our pets over our tv sets and others more. The relationship between living beings become more intricate once people are involved. The intricacies becomes even more pronounced when it involves lovers, couples and family. No one man may allow another to fully run his/her life. That is contrary to man's nature. Man has dominion over all things in this world, each man has, meaning we do not have dominion over another man. Man is not a thing, this we must never forget. Thus with another man, we make the necessary adjustments so as to be comfortable around each other. Unto those men whom we found to be too difficult to be around with, we shy away from. Easy to do for others, but when it involves a member of the family, there goes the big problem. It usually ends up with one having to swallow his pride and allow a truly wide angle of sacrifice and scope of understanding.