finding a family

Philippines
February 20, 2007 9:18pm CST
not all families are linked by blood, this is so called "ADOPTED".. what would u feel if you'll found out that you are adopted???how would you react about the situation?? although you loved your present family will you leave them and find your real family juz to filled the big hole that you felt in your life ??? if you have an adopted in your family would you treated them differently & love any less???
2 responses
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
uhmm, if i were adopted i wont feel any surprised..lol. nahh.. its because when i was a kid i was always mistaken by other people that im adopted... i dont blame them since when i was little i dont look like any of my parents..(idiot people... too judgemental..lol.) but seriously, i wont feel any bad maybe i will have the urge to meet my biological parents but not to be with them after all they left me first. and second i will appreciate more the family i grew up with cause they treat me just like there own. just like the saying " you cant tell a family is family just because of blood"
@kesfylstra (1870)
• United States
21 Feb 07
I think if, at the age of 24, I found out I was adopted, I would first of all be really pissed that they never told me. I think I would feel an urge to make contact with my birth parents, but never to replace the family I grew up with, just because I would be really curious.