When your love breaks up with you and he's back again to you

Saudi Arabia
February 21, 2007 4:49am CST
Guys and Girls, how do you deal with a situation like this: Your partner that you're truly in love with, whether it is man or a woman, broke up with you (you weren't the one who broke up) because he wants to return to his EX. After awhile, he is simply back. What would you do ?? (forgive, ignore, forgive with new terms...)
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3 responses
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
If i still love her, i would forgive her and start anew.
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
21 Feb 07
You are a much better person than I am, and she is a very lucky girl to have you!
22 Feb 07
wow ur so 4giving...ha ha !!
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• Saudi Arabia
25 Feb 07
Thanx for the response Addicted2Love and i fully understand u but you may have 2 make sure that when she comes back 2 u she she really means it and she is really serious.
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22 Feb 07
i've seen this happening. it is happening with me actually, but in a different way. my girlfriend dumped me a year ago, not cuz i cheated on her or anything, but was 4 other reasons. she is still in love( i know this 4 a fact as she coulndt stop not talking 2 me) i asked her if it was ok 2 come back, but she is setting new rules and treating me cold. ur case, depends on u. it is NOT easy 2 just ignore 4give and 4get, this crap takes time. i wouldnt. if u both loved eachother. only time will tell. as for me, i am not as forgiving. and i will not igonre. i wouldnt.
• Saudi Arabia
21 Mar 07
I understand what you're saying here. If she is setting new rules and treating you cold that would make the situation more complicated. Thanks for the response. Nice Avatar by the way.
@Greyh22 (110)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
aww... that's so sad... as for me, I also felt someone treating me cold... but it is different, in my case, he admitted that he is treating me that way because he don't want me to love him... is short, he loves me... he just don't want me to fall...
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
21 Feb 07
My goodness it is such a difficult one, but here goes. I think it all depends on the circumstances when they parted. If allot of hurtful things were said, it will be difficult to just forgive, and I most probably won't even want to listen to him. In case we parted in a good and civil manner, I will then a least, if he tries to come back, lend him a ear, listen and try to understand the reasons for his behavior, but this is not to say he can just waltz back and except open arms. Big and long discussions will follow before that happens. "sigh" People that are suppose to love and care for one another can be so cruel to each other. I hope I didn't talk to you in circles, but like I said this is a difficult one that depends on a lot of facts.
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• Saudi Arabia
21 Mar 07
i don't know how i just did not read responses of this discussion so i apologize i may need 2 take a look at my old posts again. Apology accepted ? i feel yes :D anyways, your answer is the closest thing to perfect and honestly it is not a straight forward question, there are many factors which play a major role in the decision a person makes in such situation Thank you for the reply
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@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
22 Mar 07
Apology accepted my friend:) and thank you for the vote xx