lesbian friend

Philippines
February 21, 2007 10:44am CST
if you're a straight woman, what would you think will be your initial reaction when you found out that your best friend is a lesbian and that she had a huge crush on you?
2 responses
@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
tatu, lesbians who were friends and became this wa - if you wont control your feelings it will deceive you
^_^ best friend since when? since childhood... if we have been together for years and has been time tested and are really true friends.. will will knock her head and say she needs some help and i will buy her a boyfriend... ahhahah^_^ but if we are just that bestfriends for few years, well, i'll just say the truth that im so sorry, i am a straight girl, even if you want to, even if you will hate me forever.... i will always be a woman, i am born and created this way and i have nothing to do with a thing to disgrace my gift as a woman... if she hates me, then so be it... at least i am true to myself and i wont let her feelings arise and let us both be overwhelmed and destroy our lives because of the fact that we want each other for lust and relation and not for friendship and sincerity.. if she will accept it, its fine and we will remain friends even if she thinks shes lesbian, i will surely help her to realize how much shes a beautiful woman and alot of men will be there who will trully love her and give her a family someday... what is friendship for? i ought to help her so i will find a way even if its difficult.. take care^_^ good luck.
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
thanks guyss....
21 Feb 07
It wouldn't bother me if my best friend was a lesbian but i would feel uncomfortable if she had a crush on me. My best friend did come out as bi but i know she would never do anything to change our relationship. I guess it just depends how much you trust and value them and vice versa. If they truly are your best friend then they would respect that you are straight and let the confession be the end of it.