How many of you knowingly cheat ur partners and still continue doing so......???

@avs189 (1030)
India
February 21, 2007 4:02pm CST
I guess its really trick question and nobody wont come-up with reply since nobody wants defamation...bt i am really serious and asking that sometimes one cannot control the temptation or desire...and especially men do fall traps to such instances...i guess many of mylot members woul have gone through such phase..i want to know how many of you succeded in maintaining such relnship and what was outcome..???feel free to share your views....
5 responses
• United States
21 Feb 07
A lot deepends and the maturaty and the level of the relationship, and the cause to be unfaithful. There is no cut and dry answer. However, I will say that to cheat will only bring on sadness and unpleasantness in the end, to one or both of the people.
@avs189 (1030)
• India
22 Feb 07
Yea...truly in some cases cheating is done in order to preserve certain relnships or bcoz when u know that u cannot loose both of ur loved ones...and especially when u have to choose in between one of two...???
• United States
21 Mar 07
I must say that I have been there, loveing two men, but not sleeping with both. It was a big stress and hard to straighten out. I prayed a lot, and had support from close people, until I straightend it out and made a choice.
@avs189 (1030)
• India
22 Mar 07
Such incidents only add flavour to your life rather and make u realize the true meaning of your life..such incidents really define the true meaning of life and make u realize that u cannot take ur life very lightly ..they are just addon flavours to ur life...
• India
21 Mar 07
i am very clear when it comes to our relationship. I have never cheated my wife and would never do so ever. And I expect the same from her. We firmly believe in each other and see no reason to fall in a trap and there is nothing which atracts us more than each other.
@avs189 (1030)
• India
22 Mar 07
What matters is love and honesty and when there is a perfect love one should not care abt others its enough to bind the relnship ..wish u luck
@limcyjain (3523)
• India
22 Feb 07
I can prodly say that i have never cheated my partner and dont intend to do it ever in my life. We love each other dearly and would never imagine of cheating each other.
@avs189 (1030)
• India
22 Feb 07
Thanks for response since i know that ur really honest to ur partner ..good u would enjoy a healthy relnship in ur life...
• United States
22 Feb 07
I would never cheat on my partner I would either break up with him or let him getting a hooker too. I mean it's not hard to not cheat on a man or women you love so why would you cheat on him/her if you really did love him/her. I mean if you wanted to date him/her so badly why cheat on him/her, or even worse why would you marriage a partner just to cheat on them atleast devorce before you hook up with another person. I mean why would you need to cheat on your partner if you really loved him/her that's my question? That's my point of view on the whole cheating concepte.
@avs189 (1030)
• India
22 Feb 07
One who truly loves another wont ever cheat ..but there are some circumstances in your life when you really feel depressed or u need to accept such means bcoz u cannot resort to any other way...i personally feel that trust is most important thing in any relnship...trust matters alot...
• Canada
21 Feb 07
Well I cheated on my girl freind once and it wasent pretty. She wouldent forgive me but who would, she didnt want to ever speak to me, and she didnt trust me... So cheating is very wrong if your going to do stuff with other people dont go out with some one... Be single so you can do what every you want! And if your goign to say but im in love with him/her then you would not be cheating on him/her...
@avs189 (1030)
• India
22 Feb 07
Yea...ur correct atleast u made it clear that u have relized the consequences of your mistake and that evryone are equal ....however cheating in some cases does help to some people ...i mean some times cheating needs to be done in order to serve your purpose or to maintain some facts of your life....that shouldnt be disturbed by others...