Baby, a problem on your Pockets?

@geejoy (344)
Philippines
February 21, 2007 6:54pm CST
i heard from my colleagues here that having a baby will definitely drain you in finances..since you have to spend on diapers and as well as the milk for the baby....what do you think? if not, what are those ways on how you budget your finances especially you have diapers and milk to buy every week.....
4 people like this
6 responses
• United States
22 Feb 07
A lot of people try to discourage others from starting a family until they are financially able to support a family, but sometimes there is no way to plan having your children. They just happen. Yes, it is true that kids are expensive little beings. You have to buy the diapers, clothing, take them to the doctor, feed them, etc., but nothing in the world can compare or interfere with the love you feel for your child. You find ways to make ends meet, and you do the best you can because you want them to be happy.
1 person likes this
• United States
24 Feb 07
Hey, honey, birth control is a LOT cheaper than a child. Keep that in mind. I pay $14 for 6 months of birth control and it WORKS obviously no kids for me woo-hoo! :)
@geejoy (344)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
i agree......but then, we have to deal also with practicality here....i've met people who have this ideals that "What God gives, we heartily accept"....but then, you have your free will on what you are going to do with your lives...if you are determined to give your children good futures.....then, you have to deal with worldly decisions also......well, but then, i respect your opinion..maybe there will be changes in my own point of view if im a mother already.......
1 person likes this
• United States
22 Feb 07
Check this out: http://www.emsc.nysed.gov/nysatl/FCS/Baby/html/baby7.html Step I. One-Time Purchases Total = $826.67 Step II. Pediatric and Well-Baby Care = $565.00 Step III. Infant Diapering Costs = $3,120.00 Step IV. Infant Feeding Costs = $540.00 Grand Total all above = $5,051.67 One Time Purchases: Baby Bottles (one dozen) $55.98 Infant Safety Seat $29.99 Baby Stroller $79.99 Infant High Chair $69.99 Diaper Bag $18.00 Infant Changing Table $69.99 Infant wardrobe $131.80 Portable playpen $80.00 Infant crib (Include mattress and crib sheets) $149.99 First toys (mobile) $36.00 BABIES ARE EXPENSIVE
1 person likes this
@geejoy (344)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
yes, babies are expensive...so i think families nowadays should really plan...both in their finances and pregnancies as well...
1 person likes this
• United States
24 Feb 07
I think people who DON'T have children should get a tax cut but it works the other way around the more kids you have the more Uncle Sam gives ya. What about the drain on resources, economy, etc. If you don't have a child, and ESPECIALLY if you adopt one, you should get credit for it. Anyone can spread their legs and pop out a kid.
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
Well, I really believe that couples must plan it well. Having a baby could be expensive but that must not deter you from having one. It could drain your resources but the reward it could bring you in return is more precious than all the wealth in the world combined. As Miriam Santiago once said,"What could be more important than a child?" A happy family does not necessarily mean a family in abundant resources. I came from a real poor family but then we're still happy despite some financial setbacks and constraints. Good luck to your future family and may it be as successful and as happy as you wish it to be.
• United States
24 Feb 07
Bad Kids - Santa died because of you
What could be more important than a child? I'll tell you. SANITY!!! Check it out, for laughs. This is where you should take your children when they misbehave - then tell them it was their fault for being bad! *grin*
@Miriel (1041)
• Norway
22 Feb 07
We had a baby 5 months ago, and we have a little less money now than before. But not much. I think If you budget well you will not get drained pockets.
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
23 Feb 07
If you wait for the right time or money its something you may never do. If you want a baby you should leave the money out of deciding . A family is something so many want regardless of the money ,it always has a way of working out. We started in our senior yr. of high school,and have a decent life own our own home,not to mention we are blue collar workers (per say) . A stress that is forgotten when the package arrives .Go with your feeling the rest will fall in to place.
• United States
24 Feb 07
I'm not yet married and doesn't have a kid, but I know from my mom's experience with my younger siblings how expensive it could really get to take care of a baby and to buy all of its needs. My mom would really scrimp her budget and prioritize the new addition to the family. She didn't have any choice on the matter. Somehow, everything fell into place. She just worked harder and believed that everything would turn out right in the end. In the matter of budgeting and taking care of the baby, we had a support system. We took turns taking care of the baby. My dad also worked harder. When I was still in college, I also worked part-time in order to help my mom out, and so did my sisters. It's a matter of trying to work things out and maximizing the possibilities.
1 person likes this
• United States
24 Feb 07
Thanks for choosing mine as the "best response"! Truly appreciate it!