What am I going to do when ur gone...?

Pakistan
February 22, 2007 12:36am CST
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, what whoud you do? whould you like to take revenge or forget and forgive then because they have helped you in learning about trust and them importance of being cautions to whome you open your heart. or keep loving them in hope that one fine day he/she would return...?
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• Malaysia
22 Feb 07
I can't imagine if it happen to me. Actually i don't want to experience it. I fall in someone and face a lots of trouble in our relationship. But i keep work hard to save my relationship because i know how hurt when it comes to broke up. I don't know how to say, but the thing is, i don't want to experience it.
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• Pakistan
22 Feb 07
good, keep it up and try to not perceive wrong about ur mate.
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• Malaysia
24 Feb 07
thanks for the kinda cheer..i'm sorry if my opinion like a selfish one. Do you get upset by facing these problem? How do you feel?
• Pakistan
22 Feb 07
well... i have such experiance. she hurted me alot, but i guess it was our both fault so i forgive her and ill let her come back in my life when ever she wants to come.
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@djmaan (6)
• Pakistan
22 Feb 07
if someone hurt me and leave me, then first ill try to realise that was it my mistake or that person was wrong, if it appears my mistake then ill realy feel very bad n sad, if i figure it out that its her mistake then ill began to hate... but dont want to give any kind of damage come to her coz of me
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@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
Heart breaks are tough challenge indeed, If this happens console yourself with the lessons you gain from the experience, grow, pick up your self and be yourself best friend. Pray. ask God to guide and give you the power to forgive and forget. Move on. "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it are the issues of life." -prov.4:23
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@lucky_witch (2711)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
Well.. I guess move on... forgive and forget... What ever you experience in a relationship... whether good or bad, you'll gain lesson and helps you to improve into a better person...(if you take it positively) When we enter into a relationship... there is no guarantee that we won't get hurt... well if it happens, I guess the best thing that you can do is... think what went wrong. Then move on... The next time you enter into another relationship... try not to commit the same mistake... if in time he comes back and you think you still love him... then go ahead... give it another try... this time... make things work.
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@charms88 (7541)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
I once go through that stage in my life. Initially, I went a little insane because I kept laughing like a maniac. Slowly, after the whole thing began sinking into my muddled mind, I began planning to perform some voodoo or withcraft things which of course I didn't. I tried to forgive and forget but really, it was difficult. I just learned to accept the pain and from there, I became much stronger and wiser.