reasons why men wouldn't marry the women they got pregnant?

@catcai (1056)
Philippines
February 22, 2007 11:43pm CST
Hi there, i was just wondering why there is a growing rate of unwed- single moms now, I for one will become a single mom and the guys excuse for not marrying me was because he doesn't love me the way he used to anymore...which was very painful and unfair. Does anyone else have the same experience as i did? or knows someone who went through this? what were the men's reason for not marrying, if you are a guy who got some girl pregnant, what would be your reasons not to marry this girl? your views on this will greatly be appreciated. :)
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@mykreyes (55)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
i got gf b4, whose have kid already.. i just courted her for personal interest, like releasing pressure that would be included,financial.. guys are really tough, they do everything just to get they want from a gurl. the reason why they aren't merrying the girl is, from the start just he liked it you for personal interest also...when he get what he want just throwing ut you away from him,just like what i did of my gf b4..and he didn't liked you from the start of the relationship.2nd maybe financially problem, and your not the one of dream of.. thats it..hope i can help
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@chinese99 (139)
• United States
23 Feb 07
I think man should take 100% resposible for this situation because if he is not sure he really intend to accept her as wife, he should prevent pregnancy while living together . Reason for not marring? it's simple, he is just want to have X and neglect to think about other . Very selfish indeed . Those loser will regred when they have daughter who facing same problem . In Mordem age we have a lot of pregnancy prevention,all we have to have is humanity . God bless you ...
@catcai (1056)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
thanks for the response, actually the baby im carrying right now is a girl and i've been praying so hard that my child wouldnt have to go through what i've been going through when she grows up someday.
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@lillake (1630)
• United States
23 Feb 07
I would assume that a man's reason for not marrying a woman that is carrying his child is probably the same reason he did not marry her before the child was conceived. Too soon into the relationship, not strong enough feelings of love, not ready to be commited, etc...