why?

@stacyv81 (5904)
United States
February 23, 2007 11:24am CST
Why does someone make you feel bad for making one little stupid mistake when they have made like 10. Our relationship wont work because you made one mistake that wasnt even your fault. but they continue to make mistakes over and over, not taking your feelings into consideration. Why do guys make relationship problems all the girls fault/
3 responses
@crazy_me (588)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
I am a girl. And in my case, it is the other way around. One small and unintentional mistake of my boyfriend can make me mad, even though he easily forgives me when I make mistakes. When I am mad, I tell him many hurtful things. The only reason why I do that is I flare up easily. I have been like that even with my ex-boyfriends. Yes, I am a very bad girlfriend and I am not proud of it. I am just being honest. I am really trying my best to change. So far, there is an improvement. But what I want is to totally erase that bad attitude from my system.
@ctinabina (386)
• United States
23 Feb 07
Generally, I don't know if that's true, that men blame relationship issues on women. It is not fair to be blamed for a non-working relationship. You deserve to be treated honestly and fairly.
• Romania
23 Feb 07
maybe becouse they don't understand us so good.They have their idees and everitime when there is a fight we are guilty is something caracteristic with most of the guys.Who knows what is the explenation.