love or money?

Philippines
February 23, 2007 11:32am CST
will you go for someone you don't really have feelings for but is very rich and will surely give u and your kids a good future? Or would you rather live in poverty and be beside the one you say you love? love or money? pls choose just one so you can have a better & clear stand on this...
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@kaydee10 (268)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
I will go for Love...because love can be your motivation to earn money
• United States
23 Feb 07
I agree, we strive to make more money, so we can enjoy it TOGETHER...a common goal to strive for by both, it is more meaningful, and then you can *celebrate when you have reached a goal.
• India
23 Feb 07
I go for both dear.
@Fishish (697)
• India
23 Feb 07
i would rather live in poverty than in a mansion in which no one is there to ask me how i am doing. there is no point in living with a person who can not give u his time and affection.
@aretha (2538)
• United States
23 Feb 07
i would love to be rich but wouldn't it be better to try and get rich with the one you love.haha like that will happen here. my hubby and i have had alot of money problems abd still have just enough to pay bills and eat. i would love to just go out and buy new shoes and whatever but i wouldn't leave this for any amount of money. we are happy and broke whats the point in having money if you can't be happy.
• India
23 Feb 07
While money is a very important thing in life, its not the only thing. At the same time, love and money need not necessarily be mutually exclusive, ie it's not as if you have to choose only one of the two, as it's possible to get both of them in some balance. The next question would be what kind of balance? That is something that changes from person to person. I feel that if you get a choice between a person who is loving and caring and only above middle class and a person who is totally aloof but substantially richer, the right person would be the first, but then you might want the richer person after all. Remember that in spite of having more money than you could probably spend, if you have no real love, you are not really going to be happy with yourself. This is just one amongst the several questions that plague humanity! How much is enough?
• United States
23 Feb 07
Love without a doubt. I was married to a miserable man for years who provided well, but it was a lonely life. He did'nt care for my feelings, or what I was interested in. I was only around for show it seems. To complete his white picket fence/ house/2.5 kids picture of life. Fast forward a few years, I am happily married to my best friend, we dont have alot of money, but ...and here comes the corniness..."we got love" lol
@cdparazo (5768)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
I would choose LOVE, because i believe that poor could still get rich if one works hard and studies hard. A lot of things could be overcome and be achieved in the name of Love.
• Romania
23 Feb 07
i shurly chose love becouse i can't stand the fact that i live with a man just becouse he have money.I can't thinck that i will kiss somebody which i don't have any feelings for him i can't imagine my life in this way.i wan't to live with a man that i love .