how does girls choose to fall in love with someone??

fall  - falling in love
United States
February 24, 2007 8:44am CST
i dont understand how a girl choose someone to fall in love with ...?????? for most guys its easier to develop feelings for any girl and they can fell in love easily with any girl or develop a crush if he gets to spend some good time with her .... but the same girl on the other hand might show that she thinks the same way but .. its not always like that.. she might fell for a guy who just said hi to her once or maybe with a picture even ..how does that girl choose some other guy when she was spending the perfect time with a guy but to her he is just a friend .. and for the guy by everyday she becomes more then a friend?????? so how does a girl choose to fall for some guy??
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
24 Feb 07
I do not belive that anyone, man or woman choose whom to love. Love is something that we have no controll over. you might be able to convince yourself t´hat u are in love - but it is not true love - true love you can´t controll!
• United States
24 Feb 07
there is no such thing like true love ... and love can always be controled .. maybe not ur first love .. but when you get out of ur first love you start seeing things clearly and then u know clearly relationships and love is a complicated thing to understand ... its all about relationships ... you will forget about differenciating between love or true love if you are in a relationship .. and if you are not in a relationship then ofcourse .. you have time to think about these things .. true love .. falling in love .. love is this .. love is that .. but its nothing like that .... believe me ... from ur reply i think maybe u have fallen in love with some one but you are not actually in a relationship .. just spend an year or two in a relationship my dear .. then i will ask you the defination of true love .. or just love ... which is just a word ....