i have a crush on the class

Philippines
February 25, 2007 10:39pm CST
i have a crush on my classmate, what should i do? should i show to him that i like him? or just wait for him to noticed me?any ideas?
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7 responses
@bmoliv (184)
• United States
26 Feb 07
You should tell him. It will make things easier instead of having a guessing game. Now, it will take guts but it will definitely make things easier in the long run. Good luck!
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• Philippines
26 Feb 07
but i am a girl?isnt bad to look at?
@Myrrdin (3599)
• Canada
26 Feb 07
I think you should approach him. I know you posted to others that suggested this that you are a girl and wouldn't it look bad. What do you care how it looks to others. You like the guy right? If you don't you will always wonder what could have been. Many men like for a woman to be the aggressor in some situations. Not to mention how do you expect him to notice you if you don't let him know you are interested. If you feel really comfortable, just try talking to him as much as possible and let your body language do the talking for you. Try to befriend him and see where things go. You may find that you don't like him after all, but that it is just a crush.
@AmbiePam (85975)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Kind of depends on the culture on whether men like women to be the agressors.
• Philippines
27 Feb 07
yes you are right..thanks for your advices..i really like your answers.i will give you a big plus
• Canada
26 Feb 07
Approach him and see if a friendship is possible. If it is, take it from there, if not, move on.
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
but i am a girl?is it good to look at?that i am the one who initiate my feelings?thanks for your response
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
that's up to you. If you think you can handle it, go on then and show him what you feel for him. But if you think this is too forward, wait until he notices you. But don't count on it too much. You should know that everything doesn't always come your way. You're still young, so I guess it's up to you what to do. Being adventurous isn't a bad thing and being modest and playing hard to get is still in. I mean there are times when you just have to protect yourself from people who may want to harm you. But it's a gamble. So either you go for it or stay out of harm's way. That won't matter in the end, anyway.
@AmbiePam (85975)
• United States
26 Feb 07
Drop subtle hints, but let the final move be made by him. If you lay it all down on the line, he might use it against you. It's much easier to find out slowly than lay it all out and be humiliated in the long run.
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
26 Feb 07
Well Kayesteph, you are so young.... I think that you shouldn't be in a hurry. You could wait a little.... you could try to see if he notices you before you.... maybe in some days he could tell you that he likes you, but if this doesn't happen you can show him that you like him, to me there is nothing bad, I think that he'll appreciate that.
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
yes thats right..thanks for your response
• Canada
26 Feb 07
Honestly I would tell him. I know its not the easiest thing in the world, and easier said then done but you'll feel much better once you know. Guessing games and waiting I think are harder in the long run then just asking.