who to handle wife and mother?

Malaysia
February 26, 2007 12:09am CST
currently, there is a misunderstanding between my wife and my mother. and i was dragged into it. since i love both of them very much, how do i achieve a 'win-win' situation?
3 responses
4 Mar 07
You should be truthful to both. Some times personal interest between mother and wife bring this kind of situation. You must judge the facts and accordingly handle the situation tactfully.
@covenant (12)
27 Feb 07
That's a no brainer to me. ALWAYS GO WITH YOUR WIFE , EVEN IF YOU THINK SHE IS WRONG. don't even think of doing other wise
@Zamboni (160)
• Canada
26 Feb 07
Depending on the situation I would have to say this.....who do you have to live with?Who did you marry?How are you going to spend the rest of your life with? I would have to say your mother needs to come second, but I am not sure what it was about.You have to be on your wifes side.Or tell them bother to forget about it and move on or you will have to be in the middle for a LONG time. good luck