Is Marriage a Hell or Heaven? Married men and women what do you feel about...

Marriage = Transfer of power from male to female.. - Before marriage it is male dominated society at home, after marriage it will be female dominated hell.
India
February 26, 2007 6:39am CST
"Marriages are made in Heavn", a famous quote i hear at my place..But i dont think so..I feel life before and after marriage are completely upside down... Guys, poor guys particularly loooooose all their freedom and being myself a guy, afraid to loooose my freedom after marriage..Hey poor married men do you feel the same that you are put in a some kind of jail after marriage and do u feel that there is a lady detective who monitors all your activities whether it is private or secret etc... What do you suggest..should i marry or not?
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6 responses
@smille (831)
• India
5 Mar 07
why u r so much scared of? marriage is always a gamble....not necessesarily all women turn men's bosses, its not always a win win situatation to any ...its give n take, understanding,love,devotion, if u try to control ur spouse then she or he too wll try the same or try to overcome of the burden, but if u give appropriate liberty ur relationship wll not be a burden, it wll flourish...but someone has to take the initiative thts the point, u never lose in love if u surender but u win a lot thts wht i think .....so dont be so scared of marriage, its not always same with everybody, it varies from person to person.....io wish luck u get ur best!!!!!!!
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@catch_me (930)
• India
27 Feb 07
I am not sure whether the place of marriage was originated in heaven or hell cause I am not much in to this mushy sentimental rubbish, but to be frank as always, its not where the marriages are made up off, its actually where we make them. When a man and woman marry, it actually is not just something living together or such, but on a scientific view it is actually something of an affinity of symbiosis similar to that of a hermit crab and a sea anemone. Whatever the bond is especially in the case of marriages, the only main factor is that there must be astral, mental, physical as in body language, psychological, and also mild pheromonal means of understanding. If such an understanding or such a symbiotic analysis is stable, good, and long lasting, then the affinity between both also lasts forever thus finally clearing in the statement of a good solemnized marriage and also stating that marriage are made in heaven. Any sorts of flip flops or errors in this symbiotic relationship and you may say that marriages are made in Illarka that is Hell or underworld in the Sumerian myth
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@cutebaby4 (196)
• India
26 Feb 07
It doesn't mean that marriages made a heaven or hell.Its in you to make it as heaven/hell.It depend on how much you love,care and understand your mate.
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• United States
26 Feb 07
Marriage is what you and your spouse make of it. I love being married. Every relationship is different and if your girlfriend is controlling now, marriage won't change that.
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• India
26 Feb 07
Definetely you go to have married life. It is very important to engage someone in your lonely life. It is very finest moment when some one will come to you and put her head on your chest and give you a lot of love. Whenever you are in sorrow, she will always be available to make your sorrow less and less. It is very necessary to get married.
• Bulgaria
26 Feb 07
It depends on you and your partner. You can make it nice if you love eachother. However now people marry before they are sure they want to be with that person and after that we see a lot of divorces so people should think about that before they marry. But it really depends on you and your partner, just help eachother, love and be happy and everything will be fine for you!