Ex issue!!

Ireland
February 26, 2007 12:02pm CST
I broke up with my long term girlfriend 6 months ago today and although its got easier..ive just recieved a major blow!she has a new boyfriend!!i remained mates with her and its being great but now what do i do?do i cut all ties??i dont want to hear about her new relationship!!its painful..any advice very much appreciated
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5 responses
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
just avoid her :D if you really can't stand seeing her with another guy, maybe you should really end your communication w/ her. Don't be too hard on yourself. Let time and distance heal your pain. Give yourself a break & enjoy your singleness. :D Give her time also to maybe miss your company, and who knows (not to give you false hope or something but its possible), she may eventually realize that she wants you back. Be strong OK. Move on & enjoy life :D
@paulsy (1264)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
Well, do you still love her? If you still do, then why not let her know about it? For all you know, she was probably waiting for you to get back to her. It takes time for a girl to forget a guy she once fell in love with, unless the relationship ended bitterly. If you can't take hearing about her new relationship, then you probably still love her, so give it a try and ask her back. If she turns you down, then, well, at least you know where you stand. Then you can cut all ties if it will continually hurt you to hear about her new relationship.
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@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
26 Feb 07
Think of the options you have and dont htink of the options of life that wished you have... life has its part to play and you have yours... life is limited my friend.. better live it quick and wisely ... noone in life matters than the one's who you really live with and the one's who really live with you... people will come and go in life... they will try to make an impression... instead you make an impression on them and let them feel that they have lsot and you have won... dont feel down dude!! i'm sure you enjoy your short life like everyone else does.. you will have many more opportunities to prove your worth.. .remember ... you have ONE LIFE.. DONT WASTE IT IN REGRETTING... live it while CELEBRATING... happy earnings
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
26 Feb 07
Be honest with her. Tell you that you want to remain friends but that you do not want to hear about the details of her new relationship. I do have to say though friends do tend to share that type of information together. If it is too difficult for you to stay friends with her then you must tell her that as well. Just be honest about all of it and it will make it easier.
@jamesdon (18)
26 Feb 07
Move on... You don't want to be stuck with the same girl in your head try and find someone else, its best to cut all ties altogether if being mates is too hard. You obviously care for her alot but try not to talk to her unless she talks to you and let her know you want to get over her so that she stops talking to you for a bit