I dont know what to do/think.

United States
February 26, 2007 10:09pm CST
The guy from the bowling alley - it continues. We decided to hang out at the mall tonight and I had assumed he'd go alone, and he had planned to as well. When he got there he was with his cousin, which wasn't a big deal, I didn't mind. It was really boring actually, I followed him and his cousin around while they looked at "bling" and hats. Then we went to the tuxedo shop because I guess his cousin has a wedding to go to and is in it. He had to get fitted. We talked a bit, it wasn't all that awkward... just quiet. When they left we hugged and said goodbye, he asked me to call him when I left the mall or got home around 9:30. His cousin text messaged me when they were driving off, he asked me if I wanted to have a threesome! This was somewhat of a rude question to ask when you've only just met them. I had replied "Um. No." and he wrote back, "... well it beats sitting @ the mall lol i was just playing"... I didn't find this too funny however. And i probably should not have sent this back to him, but I did. I basically said Whatever. I don't really find that funny but okay. and he wrote back... "what ever apparently you dont find anything funny"I was a little bit upset, and so I called him up and I was checking to see who exactly sent the messages, his cousin identified himself in the first message he sent me, and i was a bit curious as to if it was just him sending it. SO I called and when they answered I asked, "Who was texting me?" His cousin answered, It was me. I said, who's me? He said, Me, the guy Tim Brought with him, the other person that was there? So I said, okay. That was kinda a d!ck thing to say to me you know. He said, I wasnt being a d!ck. And I was like, well, whatever. And he apologized and I was just messing around when I was like, Yeah... right. He said, no really. and Im like sure. --- He hung up on me. Now Tim wont answer my calls, or text messages. Why do I always f$#k things up??I dont know if Tim's mad at me or not... I'm not sure what to think right now.
3 responses
• United States
27 Feb 07
don't be too hard on urself. life is frustrating enough without trying to make too much out of everything. i don't think u f'd it up. it sounds like he's a jerk. if he's really interested in u like that, he shouldn't be fooling around and making jokes about 3somes. only jerks do that kind of crap.
• United States
27 Feb 07
no it was his cousin that was texting me from Tim's phone...
@krysi17 (234)
• United States
27 Feb 07
I think maybe none of this would have happend if he would have put just kidding or something on the first text.But then again some would say you dont have to be so serious.Just giving you both sides.Hope I helped a little bit.
• United States
27 Feb 07
I see what your saying, but I wasn't being so serious the whole time they were at the mall with me... I was laughing and stuff... but what am I supposed to say to a text like that and then the series of other texts i got, getting a little confused? I wasn't sure.
@kathyyan (29)
• China
27 Feb 07
don't unhappy