how would you know if your husband is cheating on you?

Philippines
February 27, 2007 9:11am CST
Are there really signs that shows that your husband is having an affair? Can you really monitor all his moves? Is there really such a thing as basic instinct? How would you really know? Please share your experiences. Thanks...
3 responses
• United States
27 Feb 07
As i am a male and cheating on my wife one time, go by ur instincts. there a lot of signs that you might not see. He will seem distant from you and not very talaktive. Never wants to touch you or do anything with you. he alwasys has a excuse why he has to leave the house and that you cant go with him.. the big kicker is if he brings you home candy or flowers for no reason...
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• United States
27 Feb 07
There are different ways to know if your husband is cheating or not. You see it all the time in the movies. Yet, there are things unmentioned. For one, there is your gut instinct. Woman have a seventh sense: our gut. When you get that gut feeling that something is wrong, maybe it is wrong! Some men cheat online. So, that's easy enough, if you're husband is being suspicious on the internet (i.e. closing windows, getting off the internet really quickly, minimizing chats, etc.). Another way to know if he's cheating on the internet is to check your internet history or check his e-mails, or check his chat history. Outside of the internet is any suspicion you have such as him working late, saying he's going one place and yet, his phone records shows another place (i.e. he says he's going fishing with his buddy in this city, but when you get the phone bill it shows him using his cell phone in a completely different city/state when he called you (yes, this happened to me)). There's always the lipstick on the shirt collar, and coming home smelling like another woman, or finding underwear that aren't yours around the house or in his car.
• India
27 Feb 07
it is very simple as if he is behaving too good with you than earlier and that to suddenely changes and becomes so kind to you then you have to understand that he is having some affair outside. also you need to check his credit card bills and his wallet also. actually frankly telling it is very simple