is it right to entertain a lady while your girl is not around ?
28 Feb 07
Ummm.... it's one thing to meet a girl for a coffee (a FRIEND coffe and not anything else), but it's a totally different thing to have a girl in your home with just you and her. That is opening a truckload full of potential doubt, mistrust, and hurt - even if it was innocent as a one-year-old. I'd stay as far away from that situation as you can, and if she's pissed at you I think she has every right to be. Think about it from the other side: If my wife had some guy over by himself I would be livid - That's the home that you share, and it's a matter of respect.
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27 Feb 07
Well it depends on what you mean by 'entertain'. And does your girl know this other lady? And did you tell your girl or did you keep it a secret? If I am having drinks with another man, one it is some one my boyfriend knows and two, I tell him about it. So there is no secrets and or deceptions and my boyfriend is ok with it. If your girl would not be ok with you 'entertaining' another woman. Then it is absolutely wrong.
27 Feb 07
well to ask such a question in teself is so wrong , lol , well it is very wrong a thing to do , and if you were in her place you would have also disliked it the most . she will definitely feel bad and if you love her dont do that ever .