how to cure from hurt or bad experience

Increase your confidence, have faith in yourself, go to new places to relax & involve yourself in work that u like..

hi Dear Friend, be realistic with the situation and try tofocus on other things. if some body is not caring you then why you are caring him or her. do not waste your time running after shadow, be realistic with the things. hopefully the best of life.

Well there is only one thing that can heal the wounds that are inflicted on the heart. And that remedy is called the "flow of time" It is a proven method and it does really work but you must understand that you will have to wait for it inorder for it to make any effect in your life. So just try to live your life and let the time do the healing.

there is no such cure from hurt or bad experience..just try to forget the bad experience,if someone hurts you then stand infront of mirror and imagine that person on the opposite side and say as many bad words as u can,after sometime you will feel relax and then try to forget him

It is just a matter of attitude. If you believe that that has not and will not have so much effect in your life, then shrug those shoulders off it. Then, that's it. The hurt will not be so painful...you will find that healing will not take too long after all.

Honestly the only thing that can really heal is time :(

As the wound caused by a cut in the hand heals as the time goes on all wounds will healed including the hurt in our mind. As the scar in our body disappears as time goes on the hurt and bad experience also heals as time goes on. There is nothing that can be forgotten or forgiven. Forget and forgive are the two beautiful words that can cause miracles. Every hurt, every sadness, every worries disappears as the time goes on. Time is only way to heal everything. Never thing too much about sadness or worries or hurt. Keep yourself buzy. Make new friends and meet new people. Slowly we will learn that we forget our bad experiences and hurt. As we bring happiness and light to other people's life, others will also will bring happiness and light to our life. Those people who are in darkness has to light the candle and bring light themself. When the first candle is lighted more and more candles will be lighted. When first joy or happiness is given to another person that person will give to others and others pass to others. Soon you will discover the way to be happy and bring happiness to the life of others.

it seems like to me time and learning to let go of the past as hard as it is to let go.

Forgiveness is the key to recover from hurt or bad experience.we know its difficult though.

For me, the best way to get over the hurt, is to talk to a friend, go for a long walk, find new things to do and get rid of everything that reminds me of my old love. I find the more things you hold on to the more ypu remember and feel blue. Life is too short to feel blue. I just get up and prove I can have a better life without them.

Try not to dweel on this past. Get rid of everything that reminds you of this bad experience. Move to another place if you have too. Realize that life is to short to dweel on such an experience.

as i think initailly do some extra work so that you will busy on that and all and once you will go on that automatically you started forgoting all the bad exprience.. of course you should not think much more about your past life..

it is dificult very difficult ,i guess faith is required ,faith in god and faith in urself and after sometime one can be back

i think the most important thing to overcome such thing as these are acceptance and moving on... always bear in mind that everything happens for a reason, and whatever reason it is you must learn from it... life must always go on... dont be afraid to love again... mistakes is where we learned from... cheer up!

you can find a new guy and have that new guy go to your old boyfriend and punch him in the face, or you can find someone who will treat you better, time will heal your pain slowly

it's hard to forget the kind of hurting a love does. what i do is that i let time do its job. time heals all wounds. i read a good book of inspirations that would help me ease the pain. pain would not go away in an instant you may indulge yourself in so many activities but, at the end of the day the pain remains and it hurts even more. bad experiences come to our lives to help us handle life better. i just live my life to the fullest and try to remember that at the end of a stormy day a rainbow will come out and a new life will begin. life has to go on.

my dear, I have recently been very very very very...ok very hurt and i don't have an easy receipt for you...I think we are all different and stories are all different, therefore it depends on the type of problems you had and how much you are hurt inside...the first thing to do is to rely on people who love us...who truly love us..I mean our family and close friends..they will be there to help and comfort us ...one good thing is to work on our selfesteem..so it helps starting a new hobby or doing something new..you must avoid being alone and thinking about bad things..the best thing is to be busy and surrounded by good people, and the most important thing is to remind ourselves that we deserve love and respect...only if we learn again to love ourselves, we can heal and one day start a new and better relationship

Oh and the best way is to go out and meet another person, or sit and think and get it out of ur system !which is really hard to do. :P

For me it's always been me and Music... My friends and family too.. but I don't like relying on people besides I know i'm the only onw who can fix what's broken inside of me :P