to go home or not to go home? help me / myLot

Israel

February 28, 2007 7:06pm CST

i live in the big city for the last 14 year this days i am a freelancer and my proffesion is writing lately i noticed my life is not moving anywhere i decided to go back to my parents (i am 34) not to pay rent for 8 months and to study computers that means i am letting go of my freedom but only for 8 months. the question that is asked to do it or not?

4 responses

jerpogz13

@jerpogz13 (283)

• Antarctica

2 Mar 07

just go for your freedom.and dont let anyone try to manipulate your life.you have to decide on your own in all aspects in your life.

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freedom

liranlgo

@liranlgo (5752)

• Israel

2 Mar 07

thank you jerpogz i did make my made i am now home in the little village city at my parents..it is night time here so i will try to start and organize my life here tommorow:)

liranlgo

@liranlgo (5752)

• Israel

4 Mar 07

thank you. god bless too:)

sehgalskapil

@sehgalskapil (1332)

• India

2 Mar 07

well i hink u sud ask urself...i mean find out tha where u wud be happy..that place u shud choose.

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liranlgo

@liranlgo (5752)

• Israel

2 Mar 07

you know sehg i learned in my life that you have yo do things in order to see if they are right for you or not..and i believe that this is the situation here so i will know if i did the right step in the next month:) thank you for the response

danishcanadian

@danishcanadian (28953)

• Canada

1 Mar 07

As long as they are not controlling every aspect of your life, because you live under their roof, you have not given up your freedom. Lots of people move in with their parents for a time when they need to get things back together.

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liranlgo

@liranlgo (5752)

• Israel

1 Mar 07

danish they are not controling every aspect of my life.. but only a few..as my mother said when she heard i need to go back to their house for a few months: this is my hous and my rukes and if you want to stay here you'll obey them' i know she is right but i am not a teenager anymore so i am not sure of doing it

Justareceptionist

@Justareceptionist (870)

• United States

1 Mar 07

THere's nothing wrong with living with your parents at a later age. The problem is what you're studying. Every other person I know is studying computers so you have a lot of competition out there.

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liranlgo

@liranlgo (5752)

• Israel

1 Mar 07

yes i know but i learned that in my country there is always computer workers needed and i also learned that the erp subject in computers here is new and on the rise and the course is only 7.5 months so it seems like a good idea to study and get a profession that will get me good work after and that in that period of time i wont have the pressure of worrying about paying the rent..did my homework here:)