Question about love: You complete or complement me?
February 28, 2007 9:06pm CST
Yesterday, I went to school. While waiting for my class I decided to have a chat with my friends. They are currently talking about their different views regarding love and relationship. Their first question is "Do you believe in the notion (about your partner) YOU COMPLETE ME?" I told them yes but I don't have any reasons for this. I just decided to answer them yes. But my boyfriend answered them no. He said that he is already complete and that he's partner only complements him. So what are your views about this. The second question was "Who would you choose, the one who loves you or the one you love?"
3 Mar 07
I think Complement is the word. You can only complement your partner or bf or husband but you cannot complete him/her. To complement him/her is to be strong when he/she is weak, to be the sunshine when the sky is gray and stuff like that. That makes people say You make MY LIFE complete. Got it? Your second question is I believe a case to case basis. There's someone I love but he doesn't love me and there's also someone who loves me but I don't even like him. I can't have either one of them. I am looking for at least a mutual feeling and build the relationship from there.
4 Mar 07
I think you really have a point in the complement issue about your other half. It's just a matter of you only felt that you are complete since he or she complements you. Okay now I am starting to get confuse. If you are being complemented by your partner then it means that you are incomplete then when he complements you, you became complete? Did you get my question?