Sharing and love

@nanamu (30)
March 1, 2007 5:46pm CST
My fiance and I share almost everything.we even used the same toothbrush.sometimes she wears my clothes.we always take our shower together and she stands there while I am in the toilet, I do that too,.! why?!! I don't know...we are like stuck together.Is this good or bad ??!!
2 responses
@hartnsoul (558)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
Sharing and loving is notbad at all. In fact it is encouraged to start a harmonious relationship. But of course, everything that is too much can make or break people and relationships. I sometimes share toothbrush with my bestfriend hubby. We find it gross yet sweet. So we do a bunch of sharing personal stuff and things too. But we do try to limit it as well. Like crapping is one of the personal stuff we do alone. Point here is, when you share too much of each other because you say you love each other, chances are you loose the mystery of one another. It can be sweet to spend QUANTITY time together but QUALITY is more important. You can never contribute to each other's personal growth or your relationships growth if you get stuck together always. Individually learning from other people and sharing it when you get together is more ideal for sharijgn and loving. God speed lovebirds! :)
@cybergwen (158)
• United States
2 Mar 07
I don't think that it is good or bad, it is just a matter of preference. In my relationship, there are many things that we don't share. Closets and bathrooms come to mind quickly. There was no verbal agreement or tension, it is just the way we've always done it.