what happen afte you go married?
October 15, 2006 4:54pm CST
a beter life?
• United States
18 Oct 06
Marriage is a wonderful wonderful thing - but only if you understand what it is in the first place, & have realistic views of how life is going to be. As cheesy as it sounds - love is a choice you make every minute of the day, & in every action you make in relation to your spouse. It is, again being cheesy, a verb. You both have to be open, communicate, honest, forgiving, patient, slow to anger & both have the same goals of success in the relationship, and work together every day to maintain that. Marriage is not about warm fuzzy feelings, even though they are part of the package. It is about a lifetime commitment and saying to each other 'No matter how bad things get, no matter if we change, no matter what - I am committed to the success of this relationship' With all that in mind - what has happened after I got married - I have changed, matured, grown up & grown more in love with my husband than ever before.