if you love someone who doesn't want you, would you hate him/her?

Italy
March 2, 2007 2:48pm CST
can you say you'd hate the person who refuses your love? or you 'd try again and again? or you wouldn't think on it anymore?
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@Joey322 (272)
• United States
2 Mar 07
i've been there. i've been on the bad side of unrequited love and it sucks:) i never hated him. i wanted to hate him, but i couldn't, b/c i loved him too. i tried to make him love me for a while, but i realized that was impossible, so i stopped trying. eventually, he became a memory. sometimes i think about him, but i try not to b/c it just makes me sad. i like to keep him out of my mind as much as possible. take care.
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
2 Mar 07
you cant force someone to have feelings for you.
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
2 Mar 07
hatred destroys the vessel which carries it. I think it is best just to keep a friend or not and move on in your search for love. Dont keep pestering them it would be harassment.
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• Italy
3 Mar 07
i think i would not hate her/him cause to love is at first to give. If u love someone really u have to accept that person to follow his own way and u should be happy of his/her successes with or without u. I know that's not easy but i think it's true love
• United States
2 Mar 07
No I would not hate that person I would move on though it is tough out there.
• United States
2 Mar 07
Well it is not that easy to want someone but it does hurt not giving anyone a chance. I don't understand why you would love someone who doesn't want you but would you hate that person no I wouldn't.