4 U, Between Physical & Emotional Pain What S The Most Difficult 2 Cure & Dealt?

Resentment - hard to dealt
Philippines
March 2, 2007 11:04pm CST
Its difficult for me to dealt with my emotional pain.I was really thought that after a years of my brokenheart,ive already forgive the person who cause it.But i realized lately that i still have resentment.Its better to get sick physically than to have wounds in my heart. Can you relate the discussion i post? If you do, i would be delighted to hear it from you!
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5 responses
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
Forgiveness must be rooted on accpetance, once accpetance comes in letting go comes next, you cannot say you have forgiven somebody when you have not accepted what happended between you and that person, resntment won't be gone until you learned the art pf letting go and be hopeful that something better awaits for you. Once I have read a book about making relationship works, and the writer says that Why does it hurts so bad when we broke up or get separated from the one we love? It is simply because wether we admit it or not we wtill love and hold on for that somebody, and because the realtionship was broken you want to convince yourself not to go on loving that person, inshort upon the break up you force yourself to lose the love for that person and thats what makes it hurt.. Love can be given even though the relationship ha s ended in that process only you will come to accept things as they are and move on.. loving the poerson continullay would make you contended and be happy for him and for yourself.. life is just like this nothing is permanent that is why you have to accept that things really happen in life
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
I mark you as my best response because you made me pause and think a little while then i whisper "bitaw noh".I really dont know how to accept and let go this stupid someone and it happened to be my husband, the father of my kids.Its been almost 4 years,but i still have bitterness deep inside.He always told me that im bitter but then, i cant admit it!!!Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...I really do hate him..."Kung sino daw yong minahal mo ng sobra, yun pa ang mahirap patawarin".I hear that from the teleserye "MAGING SINO KAMAN".Its the statement of John Lloyd as "Ely"...Hahaha!!!I know i will be fine soon!!!
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
Emotional pain is more difficult to bear for me. For physical pains, I can always find cure from medicines and other medicinal aides given by a physician. As for emotional pain, I've tried all sorts of remedy, but somehow, it was just too difficult to let go. You can hang out with friends to temporarily forget, but when you are alone again, it will just keep coming back. There's nobody to help you but yourself. Emotional pain takes time and acceptance. And sometimes, it can really be tough.
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• Philippines
3 Mar 07
yeah, it needs to be tough and learn how to accept and let go.but we always need time to handle and lessen the pain.
@Jamian (2603)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
for me emotional is harder to cure, because it is your feelings that is heart and really takes time and process to be cured.
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
3 Mar 07
I agree with you also. These last few years have put me in alot of emotional pain from my past and then worring about my grandmother dying of cancer on top of my on life and my illness. But everyone has their on proberlms.
@klystron635 (1519)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
I have to agree with you. Emotional pain is harder to dealt with than physical pain. I can't really say that I experienced a broken heart. Most people say it's the worst emotional pain ever. But I had my dissappointments and regrets and that breaks my heart. Physically pain you are basically affected physically only. After the pain it's over. As for the emotional part, you can't explain it but besides your emotions somehow physically your inactive and it affects the whole you. Emotional pain also hunts back. Whenever you saw something that reminds you of the emotional pain then it's like the pain is coming back.
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
yeah,your right when it come to reminding the pain because of something u saw and u can relate it from your past heartaches.