My Girl Friend Is Not Ready to listen my arguments

This is a good question, I am in the same situation with my man. I wish I knew the answer. I have been trying for years to learn how to get him to listen, but he only hears what he wants to hear, and doesn't listen to me when I need to talk to him. I will be keeping up with this post to see if anyone has any good advice. I hope that you find a way to be happy. Communication is really hard with someone who won't hear you out, or listen to you. Even when I try the nicest way I can't get anywhere. All I know is that learning to communicate with your partner is the best way to succeed in a relationship. I just wish I could figure out how to make someone listen. Goodluck to you.