my day out to seek help about my partner from hell!

@xXmeganxX (4423)
March 5, 2007 11:56am CST
hey there people, thanks alot for your your great advice on support! well i went to my citizens advice bureau and told them everything i told here on mylot, with this problem being quite bad i need to go back to see the duty solicitor in exactly 2 weeks time because that's the only earliest appointment they have as he is fully booked up, also they are going to involve the police too in this meeting! so i will just have to hang on in here till then, im sure i can do it as ive done it for the past 3 years! but then he will be gone definetly by the end of march which is great, i just can't wait, im so excited for this day to come! hope everyone is okay also and that's was the biggest step i made in my life up to now, lol! =)
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@remaster74 (4066)
• Greece
5 Mar 07
Well, I really don't know the story but it seems like a story I already know... mine! I think you are lucky that you will get rid of him at last. I haven't succeeded that. And it seems that I will never do.
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@xXmeganxX (4423)
5 Mar 07
hey there thanks alot for responding, if you haven't read my discussion you could if you like it's a big long but well worth reading! =) +
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@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
5 Mar 07
phewwwwwwwwww can you hear the big stone who rolled away from my heart? congrats megan, you are a big girl now lol i am really glad you did it. and now i pray for you and your lil girl till this monster has gone. i wish you strength and force. dont forget, we are all here for you. love and hugs to you. i am very very proud of you megan
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@xXmeganxX (4423)
5 Mar 07
i know phhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhew, lol! im happy i done it tho, makes me feel alot better in myself! i just don't need him to find this out! thanks alot for all your help marlyse and support, much appreciated! +++ =)
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@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
5 Mar 07
you are always very welcome ;-)
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@xXmeganxX (4423)
5 Mar 07
=)
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@anjoks (2084)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
Haha! .. you can say that again! Finally meg, u-r few steps closer to see the beauty of life again! .. I'm so happy to hear that friend. I'm so proud of you. You did a good job. Just keep holding on! 2wks? .. naaaahhh, that's nothing. Can't wait for the day also for you to spread your wings again and fly! .. haha.. kinda dramatic. hehe. Hugs en kisses to you and your baby. Take care! .. Go girl! (",)
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@xXmeganxX (4423)
6 Mar 07
lol, thanks anjocks, you cheer me up, hehe! ooh i can't wait till this day arrives when he goes because i will fly hehe!vhope your doing okay and thanks alot for responding and your kind words. xx =) +
@dfinster (3535)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thanks for keeping us posted. I've been following the things you've written about this and am really sorry that this is all happening to you. I know it's probably extremely tough for you to deal with and wish I could help. Hang in there and keep us posted or send me a message and I'll get back to you right away.
@xXmeganxX (4423)
6 Mar 07
thanks alot for all your help dfinster, it is very tough but im sure i'll make it through this, i just can't wait for this great day to arrive when he goes!! i will be smiling and i haven't smiled in a long while except when all you lot have made me happy on here and showed me support hehe! ++ =) thanks
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@gabs8513 (48716)
• United Kingdom
5 Mar 07
Meg that is just great Love I was wondering this morning and I was thinking of you. I hope you will be able to hang on there I really do. Please be careful Love and give him no reason to hurt you. Also keep an eye on your Daughter promise me that never leave her out of your Sight. I just do not trust him and you hear so many things about People like him. Love and Hugs to you You know where I am.
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@xXmeganxX (4423)
5 Mar 07
hey gabs, im sure im going to keep him happy so he doesn't suspect nothing is happening, i will act as i usually do for now, also i will keep my daughter by me at all times i have been anyway for the past week or so because sfor some unknown reason he hasn't shown any interest in her! that's quite strange to me like hmmmm..... thank you for helping me out and i shall update on what happens when i go back there! + =)
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@shambuca (2560)
• United States
5 Mar 07
So glad to hear it-- I wish nothing but the best for you- keep us posted!!!!
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@xXmeganxX (4423)
5 Mar 07
thanks alot for your kind words, i will sure keep this subject posted. + =)
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@Marie2473 (8521)
• Sweden
6 Mar 07
Hey again! I am glad to hear that u are on your way to get some help. i know what it is like to be stuck in a bad relationship. I was abused for 4 years by a man and it takes ALOT of strength to get out - i know. But once you are breaking free you will satrt to taste the freedom and you never wanna go back. Good luck to you!
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@xXmeganxX (4423)
6 Mar 07
hey marie thanks alot for responding and showing some support, im happy that you got out of your bad relationship too, soon i will be out of my bad one and i can't wait! + =)
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• Nigeria
6 Mar 07
i feel for you
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@xXmeganxX (4423)
6 Mar 07
hmm and why is that? have you read my ain discussion on this? =/
@kathy77 (7488)
• Australia
6 Mar 07
Oh that is great that you went and seeked help in regards to your partner, this is the first big step to start the ball rolling and so that you can get on with your own life, nobody needs an abusive partner. There is just too much of this today and the people doing this think that they can get away with it so hang on there and wait patiently for the 2 weeks time to go and have your appointment, and it is great that the police will be attending. You have been brave to put up with this for 3 years, so I am quite sure that this small time and you will be out of it and celebrating that you made it out whole. Good luck and keep us informed as to how you are going. Good luck!!
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@xXmeganxX (4423)
6 Mar 07
it sure is a big step im taking kathy but it will only be for the best! thanks alot also for your great comment and i sure will all you lovely peps updated on this! rated + =)
• Canada
6 Mar 07
I seem to have missed this story but I know what it's like to be a sufferer of domestic abuse. However, I've added another word to that. Survivor. Now you've added that word to your vocabulary too and it makes me that little bit brighter when I see another woman finally tearing herself away from the terrible situation they live in. Many congrats to you, and I wish you and your little girl nothing but the best for the future. Stand tall and stand proud!
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@xXmeganxX (4423)
6 Mar 07
hey rugrat thanks very much for your ever so kind words, really appreciate it! i am a survivor well i will be hehe! =) ++
• United States
5 Mar 07
Um-Uh I think that you should lie low, get all the finacial info that you have in order, copied, and put back in the same place. And just to be safe, don't talk(write) about any of it for two weeks. Unless something bad happens. Good luck.
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@xXmeganxX (4423)
6 Mar 07
thanks for the good advice jesse!! =)
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