Loneliness

@happylim (658)
Malaysia
March 6, 2007 1:31am CST
Some people like to be a lone traveller in their life. Some people are scare of loneliness. How about you? Please share with us your opinion.
5 responses
• India
11 Mar 07
I love being alone,but I am not lonely.I would hate the feeling of being lonely.I don't like being in crowd,and when I am alone I talk to myself and I feel good,that's why I love being alone.But being lonely to me has a different meaning,it means that there is no one for me in this world!Its definitely a scary feeling.whereas being alone is different because we "choose" to be alone but we know that there is always someone there for us.Infact my biggest fear is that of being lonely!
@happylim (658)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 07
Some people do enjoy loneliness but it is not easy to be alone for a long time coz loliness will make people feel hopeless and helpless. It is better to stay with companions coz no man is an island:)!
@tsolman (47)
• Canada
11 Mar 07
I'm kind of at this weird stage in my life. I have a husband who I adore spending time with (even though we have very different interests)and I have my family and a few good friends. However as of late I find that I like spending less and less time with other people cause all they do is complain about their lives. I have taken a much more positive apporach to my life and have little or no time to give to this negative attuitude
@happylim (658)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 07
After you have success to build up your positive attitude and thinking, you can try to influence and bring your companions to a positive lifestyle with no complain. Wish you all the best.
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 07
Being alone in life is really a good idea for me. Although we could have a lot of freedom, but our life become meaningless. We do not have anyone to share our happiness, sorrow, rage, grumble and achievement. We could hardly find anyone to talk to and keep to ourselves. Research show that people staying alone have shorter life. Although we have to face loneliness in our life, but we should get some companions (friens/spouse/children) when we are able to.
@happylim (658)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 07
It is not easy to be lonely in a long time coz loneliness will turn you down and negetive feeling will conquer your mind. I agree with you that we must have companions and not always live in loneliness.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 07
I don't like to be alone so i never travel singly. Most of the time i travel with my husband. Occasionaly i do travel with friends or colleages in tours. If i tavel alone i can't share the live situations and joys with others.
@happylim (658)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 07
To work or to play with a company is always getting more fun, happiness and joys. Wish you enjoy a happy life with your friends.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
6 Mar 07
I prefer company though I may enjoy being alone. To a certain extent, I am afraid of loneliness. I dont travel alone, eat alone and watch movies alone. I would rather give these a miss and stay at home. However, I like to be alone especially when I am low and not in the mood to open my mouth.
@happylim (658)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 07
It is true that we may enjoy being alone but lonelinss may make us feel sad and negative if we can't control our mind. So it is better with a company.