How do you feel...

India
March 6, 2007 9:15am CST
when you want to add someone as your friend, you request him or her to add you and they turn it down by denying you? I feel utterely disappointed and it stops me from sending a new request for some days. What about you? Do you not care a bit about it?
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10 responses
• India
6 Mar 07
Why u so much tensed bout it buddy ? be kool i neva had this prob but if they denyin u than its better i think as they doin it clearly straight So kool Down Don't give a DAmnnnn :) peace u can add me i will accept u lol :-p take care :)
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• India
7 Mar 07
Thanks:)
@072006 (1276)
• India
6 Mar 07
Hey hi,well you are right, it may feel bad , but i never sent friend request at all to anyone anymore i do get freind request daily and i accept taht even withput checking their profiles, just because i dont wanna be rude to anyone,as here you can make money just by answering discussions on mylot, and starting new discussions too, infact you can boost your earning by uploading photos, so keep posting quality responses, keep searching good discussions about which you know something and can answer, strictly avoid one liner posts,best luck and happy earning!!!...cheers!!
• India
7 Mar 07
Thanks for the suggestions:) I ususally check the profiles and emit all those members who seem to be interested in starting discussions only (and never reply even to these discussions too!) or ones who won't notice my denying them:)
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
6 Mar 07
First off think that this member may be busy doing other things on mylot or may even be offline. Sometimes I get friends requests & I don't accept them till a week later. I get busy here & tend to let that aspect slide till the end. I've never denied a request. Anyhow hope this works out for you. Happy postings from Grandpa Bob.
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• India
7 Mar 07
I too think that he had been busy, maybe. Anyway, my request is accepted and I'm happy, but one of my friends deleted me. That's ok.....
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• India
7 Mar 07
Thanks for the response and Happy posting:)
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@stateroad (730)
• United States
6 Mar 07
I do not think you should feel bad about someone not wanting to add you to their friends list. You should not take it personally. A lot of people maybe have to many friends on their list and just do not want to add anymore. Keep trying I am sure you will get accepted more then denied when asking to be added to friends list.
• India
7 Mar 07
yes you are right, I shouldn't feel bad. It was first time I requested someone so I got nervous LOL Thanks for the reply:)
@silverlou (372)
6 Mar 07
Its just one of those things, I don't tend to worry about it too much.
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• India
6 Mar 07
Thanks for the response. Actually I haven't turned down by any one yet LOL but I fear I'm just going to be as my friend is not accepting me:(
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
6 Mar 07
Don't be so sad it can happen but what if some denies to accept your friendship? There is always room for others to send you request. I think when you request somebody, firstly pray that either acceptance or denial, what comes right to you would be there. Good Luck
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• India
7 Mar 07
Thanks for the response:) and for wish too!! I wish you a charming star when you reah 100:) Best of lucks!!!
• India
2 May 07
wow!! You have got a Really charming star! :)
@yumoney (194)
• China
7 Mar 07
i like make friend very much! i didn't meet the situation like you said. it's my pleasure if some one want to add me as his friend, so any of you can add me as your friends,i will not to deny your request,thank you!
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• India
7 Mar 07
Thanks for your response:) Actually I too haven't met a situation like this but I know it will be much disheartening to me as I send requests after much consideration. Best of lucks!!!
@m_audrey6788 (58482)
• Germany
7 Mar 07
I really don't mind if someone deny my request since there's a lot of friends out there who can add me in as part of their friendlist..Maybe they were out and can't add you right away so all you have to do is wait and just go and try to add more...More friends out there friend :)
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• India
7 Mar 07
Thanks, I would like to add new friends but I'm a bit choosy:( Best of lucks!!
• India
2 May 07
Hi hora_fugit! Infact i have rejected a friend request from someone twice in mylot. This guy joined mylot through the link i send and while signing p removed my name from referal because we had some change of opinion and later send me an invite for friend and i rejected it.
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• India
6 May 07
You rejected him because he denied to be your referral? Ask him if he is ready to be your referral. If yes, will you accept his invitation?
@hkdgkurt (146)
• China
2 May 07
Hi,hora,i got the same experience few days ago,i dont mind why they denied to add me to his friend list.Maybe,he got some personal reason,i just said to myself "Dont worry about it"keep on more posting and responding,perhaps he would go back for adding to me..hehehehe.
• India
6 May 07
You are absolutely right :)