Loving a LOSER like me...

@DonBasyo (215)
Philippines
March 8, 2007 11:24pm CST
So I broke up her... I really thought she was the one. I conquered my fear of commitments and stuff. I loved her with all the good and bad things about her, I never left anything in between. I love her. It is easy to feel when your loved one falls-out of love. The feeling, warmth, the sweetness just fades. That is what happened with us. I loved her so much, I turned my whole life 180 degrees for her. But maybe it was too much, Because she fell out of love. I tried to revive it, but it was futile... So for the first time in my life... Before she breaks it to me... I broke it to her... "Its over," I put off my mobile... I cried... I am a loser right?
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@jean_rose (416)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
You are not a loser, my friend. You are not a loser because you did everything. If the relationship fell off, you have no place for regret because you did everything you had to do to make it work. And since it didn't work out like you expected, it only means one thing: you were not meant to be. You can choose to force yourself on her or demand that she stay on but it would only make you both suffer. Cheer up, friend. I've also been in that same situation before...it was my faith in God which made me see things through. I was faithful that if God took away someone who I thought was good for me, He was simply intending to send in the perfect one for me. And he did. He sent me my husband who has proven to me how much of a blessing he is from when we were married ten years ago till now. God bless you. May God send "her" to you soon.
@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
Thanks, i must say that i have been so troubled about my lovelife that i have missed to appreciate the beautiful thing we have. we- me and the LORD. Thanks for reminding me the best love of all...
@katyzzz (2902)
• Australia
21 Mar 07
You're not a loser, you just need to grow up a little more and choose carefully. don't be blinded, find someone who really likes you. You've got a lot going for you.
@DonBasyo (215)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
Love... :-( Hahahahaha!