i love a girl but...

India
March 9, 2007 2:47am CST
i love a girl but her age is 3 year more than me.my family is supporting me butu there family is not .. what should i do?
3 responses
@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
it doesnt mean anything, if you are younger or older.. love cant choose how old to have a mate, how old to marry, how old to decide or even how old to choose who's the one... love is not limitaed to a norm where a certain legality is follow... no matter who you are, old or young, good, or even a psycho.. or even poor or rich, a black or white.. when we se love, feel it and is certain of it.. there is no harm of opening up the door and letting your heart realize and open to the wonders of this feeling... you are free to decide my friend, hence weare all human, we commit a lot of mistakes and a lot of consequences.. but when true and genuine love prevails who will be repremanding because of the heart.. our emotions rule no matter how hard we follor such norms and even swear not to violate.. so be free to be you.. choose what you feel think and concluded what is right.. because for me, it wont matter, i am glad you found love.. so go on, be you... and have all the love without hesitations and doubts.. good luck ^_^
• India
9 Mar 07
I strongly say that there is no age bar for love. You can marry her. But i shall say one thing. If you really love her you may not listen my words. But the truth is when a girl is elder than you she tries to dominate you more and here rises Ego problems. If you are sure you would not face such problems you can darely marry her. Anyway all the best for your future.
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
9 Mar 07
If you two love each other i'd go for it, no matter what her family says. Nobody but you two should decide who are you going to be with don't you think? listen to your heart and her family will just have to accept it.