gf/bf's ex
By lexiemuycs
@lexiemuycs (55)
Philippines
March 9, 2007 6:30am CST
how would you handle this situation:
you and your bf/gf have been together for 2 years and 4months. you have gone through so much, from parents to everything else. you proved to each other that you love each other. and you both say, you trust each other. you don't have an ex, but your gf/bf has an ex, and they've lasted for about 3-4 years.
you trust your gf/bf... but you don't trust his/her ex.
what should you do??? and what if your bf/gf's ex just suddenly tells your gf/bf that he/she still loves them???? but your gf/bf constantly tells you that you are the one that he/she loves.. and that he/she won't replace you with his/her ex. what would you do????
help.. thanks.
1 response
@nvtellan (1907)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
Well, I have been in the same situation many times in the past and I tell you it all depends on your faith and trust to each other. You cannot control the minds and emotions of people around you nor take charge of what would happend in your environment. As long as you have trust/faith and genuine love between you and your partner then there should be no worry. If you feel threatend that he/she might leave you then at all cost do something that will make him/her stay with you. Sometimes a couple break-up because they do not have enough happiness and joy to sustain their relationship.
@lexiemuycs (55)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
thank you for your response...
and i agree, couples do break up if there isn't enough happiness in the relationship anymore. no matter how much you love each other but the happiness that you once had is starting to fade, it will eventually lead to a break up.
so sad... hehe
