can a man feel bad or good when being messed up by a woman?

depends on which of your words the girl did not believe. for instance, if you said you did not want to see her again and she didn't believe you, and continued to pursue you - then that would be aggravating to say the least. On the other hand, if she said no to your advances, and you (a male)continued to pursue her, that could be consider harrassment and you could be in serious trouble.