How jealous are you?

@mschiqui (1284)
Philippines
March 9, 2007 7:39pm CST
As a person how jealous are you towards your siblings , co-workers, or towards your relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend's friends? As to what level is your jealousy will lead you and how do you manage to control it?
5 responses
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
well, regarding my siblings, i am a little jealous if they are closer to my cousins than to me; regarding my co-workers, i dont care if they are close to me or not; regarding my freinds, i feel jealous if my bestfriend doesnt consider me as her bestfriend; regarding the love of my life, im a medium jealous girl
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@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
thats makes you human...feeling jealous to other persona, but hopefully, you will not be carried away of your jealousy and will be able to manage it..
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
10 Mar 07
I don't get jealous of peoples possessions usually, but there are times when people get in your face to show things off. At these times, I get annoyed, and sometimes jealousy slips in, but normally I am happen for the person. I don't have a problem with being jealous of my sisters, family, or close friends. There are times when I will say that I'll be glad when a things happen for me, but I rarely long for exactly what other people have, because I have my own unique style. I want to be married and have children. like my sisters do, but I have wanted it long before them. I love my nieces and nephews very much and I enjoy spoiling them since I don't have children. I will admit that I get highly jealous if I am with a guy and I know or suspect something is going on with him and someone else. I don't like to share my man with anyone. But now, I have gotten to the point where I will tell a guy, if you want so and so, go and leave me alone, I don't need the drama. If they want someone else then they were not meant for me in the first place.
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@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
Indeed you are unique!
• India
10 Mar 07
Not jealous at all or at least i cant see it. I wish i did though that way i would know he cares if some guys looking at me or trying to talk to me. I think he showed that side only once or twice when i had a phone call in a morning and i didnt pick up up because it was a private id. He didnt say nothing right there and then but when we got in an argument he brought it up. I was surprised because really that phone call wasnt anything special and i daymn sure wasnt looking to talk to anyone to cheat on him or anything of that kind. Just didnt feel like answering it at that moment, you know. But i guess he was just mad about our argument and everything seemed irritating to him, including unanswered phone call. I will be honest i wish he showed more of jealous side to me once in a while. Not too too much when he is sounding insecure and possessive, just a lil bit to hit a sparkle. Or maybe i am over-judging because i am jealous person. It all depends on his insecurities, but i am sure he is just hiding them well.
@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
Your boyfriend is a very jealous guy.. I mean for me i am flattered that my husband will be jealous sometimes, cause it helps me know that he loves me, but with that kind of jealousy, very extreme, to the point of having an argument with him, it is not a good sign already.. God bless, I hope you can handle the situation...
@kapoet (270)
• Indonesia
10 Mar 07
I'm not jealous about that. I understand about the relationship of people belong friends. I never think that can damage my relationship. Just enjoy and fun.
@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
Right, enjoy and have fun..
@jean_rose (415)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
Sibling jealousy --- hmmm, I remember giving my share for the jealous one who wants to have it all which is my sister and lately, my youngest brother. Workplace jealousy --- Well, I work according to my capacity with no goal whatsoever of catching the boss' attention...pimping myself by stepping on other's shoes, I mean. I do what is required of me and expect to be compensated and appreciated for what I have done well. But nada! The accolades go to the "sipsip" Relationship --- I am not the jealous type. When I hear rumours, I check if they are true. If I don't see my husband in bed with another woman or smooching with another woman, I don't give it much attention. Because there are timers when we are simply creating ghosts to frighten ourselves.
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@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
thats a good behaviour jean_rose..I admire you of being like that. God Bless!