what to do????

India
March 9, 2007 10:59pm CST
My younger brother is getting married and i feel some what ashamed to be present in his marriage as i m still unmarried at 30years.As i decided to settle down in my life.As in Indian society i have to perform some role in his marriage i m hezitent whether i should go in his marriage or not?? KINDLY GUIDE ME!!!
2 responses
@maddysmommy (16233)
• United States
11 Mar 07
Regardless of how old you are and not being married, shouldn't be an issue. It's your brother your talking about and surely you don't want to miss his special day? I wouldn't thats for sure (but thats just me). I would go if I were you, as I'm sure your brother would be most dissapointed if you didn't go.
• India
11 Mar 07
Thats fine i also feel the same that his sentiments would be hurt and for the same reason i am to go ....Thanks for your response.
• United States
10 Mar 07
Would it bother you to stay home from his big day? if not I would just stay home. Or you could be blessed that you never rushed into any quick wedding. It's a statement of love for a lifetime. your doing fine at 30 and not married. Any woman who can get a good man to wait until he is ready is blessed. Your brother is hopefully getting married for all the right reasons. If he is then go and wish him the best. I also wish you the best.
• India
11 Mar 07
Thanks for the suggestion friend.I will def go in his marriage.