How to cope with a break up..

Philippines
March 10, 2007 12:02am CST
This is one of the hardest thing to do, coping up with a break up. First, you must find someone or something you can lean on as soon as possible. A best friend, a favorite family member or even a pet will do. More than likely your emotions (sorrow, grief or anger) are flying high. You need a steady ear that can give you rational and comforting advise. (or at least an unconditional purr). Choose a support person that you know is objective most of the time. Don't be afraid to spill your guts or be open about how you feel. Keeping those break up emotions bottled up is never a good thing. Release them to a person who can give you rational and objective advise. Is there any other way to cope up with this? Please share it if you have something in mind.
3 responses
@grudge (299)
• India
11 Mar 07
after breakup the 1st and most imp thing you should do is get busy. involve in some work and be busy, this will make ur mind divert from ur breakup, and make friends be with them .
@krayzee (1161)
• Romania
10 Mar 07
I think the most important thing is to realize this is a passing experience. Time heals all wounds as they say. So just get out there and live your life and you'll see that as time passes it'll get less painful.
• Malaysia
10 Mar 07
hmm... u know what... i could neva cope wif break up... i used 2 lay down on my bed , hug my dearest little bear ( gift present from my bf ) n started crying... huhu. dats all i could do.. but luckily, my bf do luv me so much.. we nack 2gether n hey... we are in luv more than b4! im glad have such an experiences n a great luvers!! :)