how do you react to situations of failure?

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Oftentimes when something fails - a venture, project, event, activity or every relationships - people resort to fault - finding. Initialy it always zeroes in on who and not on the why and how. But have we ever thought of finding the solution rather than becoming critical? I have experienced being the accused andbeing the accusers; being betrayed and the betrayer; being judged and being judgmental. I am no saint. I am still in the process of forgiving people who have accused me wrongly and restraining myself from condemning people. Whenever i'm on this situation, my initial reaction would always be negative but knowing that God is in control and He is always there to get us through. So i just thought of it as a trial. He pushes me to the limit; He permits htese trials to make me a stronger person.