Judging the wife on the physical looks of her husband.

husband - man in a tie
@juliefaye (1214)
Philippines
March 11, 2007 12:44am CST
My boss once asked me a favor to sew buttons of his poloshirt. My officemates whispers.. what is his wife doing? why he have to ask somebody to do it for him? I remember that incident that when i got married, i see to it that my husband combed his hair, shirt is neat, shoes are shine even the necktie are in place or does he carry a handkerchief before he leaves the house. People tend to judge the wife on the physical looks of his partner. Do you think it's fair? Do some men bothered on the looks of his wife?
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3 responses
• China
11 Aug 07
of course it's not fair. why women should do such things? why not a man take care of himself? does he marry a women just for the sake of taking care of him? dosen't he have hands, head or thought? women are not born to do these kind of things for man, but to recreat this world and enjoy themselves with men and as men. it is a prehistorical thought that a woman should do "women's work". two people live together for love. women do "women's work" is not compulsory----we should doulbt and topple what women were imposed to .
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
12 Aug 07
wow! i like what you said here!
• China
12 Aug 07
thank you so much!^^
@vertex (803)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
I think its unfair because human as we are are created unique and no one an judge us like that.
• Zambia
11 Aug 07
Well, it is unfair to make strong judgments of character based on that. However, you are able to understand what kind of relationship the two are in based on that. It is a very fallible mode of "measurement" because it might actually turn out that the man is just a careless Dennis!
• Pakistan
11 Aug 07
when a husband behave like a boss wife becomes un happy and leave the care taking of her husband and the boss husband starts to manage it all in his office. Husband and wife are both care takers of each other. If a husband is clean and smart will mean that his wife is a good enough to help him to keep him well. If he is not set, it will be due to upset condition of his family.