Have you ever fallen in love with somebody that you can't have?

Singapore
March 11, 2007 6:11am CST
I love a guy that is a thousands of miles away from me, and I never know when we'll meet each other again.. In the meantime, we'll be more-than-just-friends for life.. He's like a family now since we don't want to expect too much.. Oh well.. I'm still happy for what we have.. Have you ever had someone that special?
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• Philippines
11 Mar 07
Hello kiddygirl! I know it's tough to have a long distance relationship. You'll never know what the other one is doing. But you are right, just be happy with what you have. If you're meant to be, you are meant to be..... good luck!
• Singapore
11 Mar 07
Hi, anjla1252! Thanks for stopping by and giving me some encouraging words.. =D I really appreciate your kindness.. Unfortunately, it's a little more complicated than a long distance relationship.. I went to the US for school, and now I'm back to where I was belong...so, I pretty much don't know when I would be back to the US if ever, you know.. Haha.. We're just great, great friends right now because we both know our situations, and we don't want to hope for the impossible.. Like you said, if we're meant to be, then we're meant to be... We're just living life like usual..just walking through it.. And yes...though it's kinda sad at times because we're physically far from each other but very close in hearts, we're still happy with what we have.. We know that my decision of moving was the right decision for me to be able to move forward, to achieve my goals in life... Sometimes it's just hard, but we know what we have to do, you know.. =) By the way.. Thank you, I really do appreciate the encouragement.. =)
@qouniq (1966)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 07
i am afraid the answer from me would be yes i do. It happen when i was working before. This is not only from my side but from both side as for me love is a feeling from both side. He was my boss who is married with 2 kids. I at first feel that i like to work with him as he is really helping me to be in the working life. But sometimes i feel jealous if he talk about his wife or kids to me. And he always asked me to take care of his kids as his wife always ask him to bring the kids to the office. After 2 years with this feeling i finally know that he is in love with me too. I feel very happy to know this thing and try to make him happy too. The only thing is that he never want the wife to know about me and don't know how to tell the wife. I left the company as i think that i would never get him as my husband. But he is still with his feeling towards me, and i also always love him even though that i know i would never had a chance to be his wife.
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• Singapore
11 Mar 07
Aww... I hope you're doing better now.. =) Thanks for sharing the story.. It's really hard if the people that we love are out of reach.. Oh well... Life goes on either way, though.. =)
@psiwyber (26)
• India
11 Mar 07
If i cant hav someone ,how can i fall in love with the person.Unless i hav the person,how will i know what chemistry we share.Its like falling in love with some 90 year old in yahoo chatroom..lol
• Singapore
11 Mar 07
Oh, you misunderstood.. Haha.. I didn't fall in love with some guy I met online.. We did meet in life, I got to know him, he got to know me, and we had spent some time together before I had to move abroad and never knew when I was gonna be back.. You know.. We both have goals in life and situations between us have forced us to be separated.. It's not like I met some random guy online.. LOL.. I would never do that, either.. Haha..
• India
11 Mar 07
oh ok...if he isnt online, then he is in..lol...u shud go for him.
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• Singapore
11 Mar 07
LOL.. Yeah, I wish that it were that easy, too.. =)