L00KS are least considerable while selecting our life partner-What say YOU?

Appearances are deceptive - A partner
India
March 11, 2007 12:27pm CST
I say looks are not so very important while choosing our life partners.Only a good character and a suitable, matching heart should be given importance.I follow the truth-Appearances are Deceptive! Can you deny this?What is your way of selecting your love?
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@Rexy_leigh (1189)
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
Very well said, dinesh... I have always lived up to my principles that when I get to choose my lifetime partner, the man that I would grow old with, I wouldn't care for his looks coz it can be deceiving at times, I wouldn't care about money coz they can be gone, and I wouldn't care for family status coz this can be banished... all I care for the is the purity of his heart, the willingness to take care of me, our relationship, and our future family, the willingness to give up some of his luxuries in life to raise our kids into good adults, and the heart that loves God. With all these qualities, I believe we can surpass all the trials that may come our way and would be able to be a good models for our children and lead them to live a happy and fruitful life. Godbless!
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
11 Mar 07
I thoght I was the only one! Yes looks are the least important to me. So many people have said "no, there has to be some physical attraction. It's what's inside that counts. Looks has no bearing on how the person treats you, how much you have in common or any other of the important things that make up a relationship. But alot of people don't feel that way and maybe that's one of the reasons why the divorce rate is so high.
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
11 Mar 07
I can not only not deny what you say but agree with you 100%. Looks mean nothing and tell you nothing of the person. Good looks can be like a siren song. We are drawn to it because we are led to beleive this is of great value. But often along with great looks come great conceit and ego. not good for a life partner. The more average a person is the less that gets in thier way of being just what you think they are. To find a very attractive soul mate is a rare thing but it can happen even though I am not sure there is such a thing as a soul mate.