being a mistress........

Philippines
March 12, 2007 3:32am CST
i met this guy in my work before before it's only a fling but when the time goes by i fell inlove with him and he become my boyfriend, though i know he is a married guy. should i stay or should i go?
2 responses
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
15 Mar 07
I once fell in love with a married man but nothing ever happened because I got better paying job and left. He was so nice and his wife sometimes came to visit him at work and she was also nice person. I really couldn't bring myself to approach him since he was married.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
15 Mar 07
I really don't think you should continue. Don't be like other people who only think of themselves and ruin somebody else's marriage. even if he is not happy in his marriage, he will have to face it like a man, if not then he is not worth your love or other's.
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
i agree, he can't introduce me to his co-worker because he is married, thanks.
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
For me, you should go and stay away from him. You have to do it to save yourself from further humiliation, so that you can restore your self confidence (cause whether you approve of me saying that youre confidence has gone low or not, I am saying that your confidence is fading away). You have to love yourself before loving another and by loving a married guy you are destroying yourself and your future. Go now before its too late,
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
i guess you're right, i have to love myself first. thanks!