what would you do if people dis agree with your idea.

Philippines
March 12, 2007 4:13am CST
its really hurtful if people dis agree with your idea, like you felt something like they don't trust and believe in you. how will you feel if they dis agree with, but in yourself all you want to do is to help.how do you insist your side.
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@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
turn it the other way around and you also disagree with them, isn't it? so, you are both in disagreeable terms.thus, that is where both of you have in common! it is not that they do not trust you, it is just that they could not see what you have seen and that is what is great with a unique idea, no one has ever thought of it, only you. be open to all oppossing ideas becaue you will learn from it and it will make your ideas far better than before.look at it at a different perspective and you will feel a lot better.
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@joby_09 (498)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
We can't please everybody. I suggest that you explain all what you can explain. Now, despite all the efforts, still they disagreed, it's no longer your problem. At least you've done your part. =) Being ignored is definitely not a good feeling but you must remember that its no longer in your hands if they will believe you or not. Also, you must remember that at one or many times in your life, you also rejected some ideas. Life's like that, dear. =)
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@samson1967 (7414)
• India
12 Mar 07
I will not worry, if they do not follow my ideas. I can show the water source to a thirsty, But I cannot take the thirsty to the water source and feed water from my own hand.
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@Rexy_leigh (1189)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
I guess it boils down to individual differences, and with that I know we can never please everybody, not even inside our own home. There should always be conflicts of interests between some people even in the small group. Well, I couldn't care less about those people who won't regard my ideas or opinions on things especially when I know that am on the right track. I believe it's more than enough for me letting my ideas and opinions known to them, it's now up to them if they will listen to me or acknowledge my thoughts. After all, it won't be too long before they'll realize who was saying the right thing, or otherwise. :P
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
well, it hurts. it's disappointing. why do i bother to insist mine if he don't believe nor even listen to it, i'm just wasting my time. the right person who needed my help has not yet come to me.
@maucute (979)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
I don't think it will be hurtful if you're open-minded.. :) Everybody is entitled to his/her opinion and to respect that, we should listen to their side or point also. We may gain something from it.. It's a matter of talking in soft way and don't just go insisting your side as you talk, it's hard I've experienced that but you have to understand them for them to understand you..
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
13 Mar 07
Unless you choose to volunteer your idea and people disagree with your idea, I would say "too bad" for you :P I only offer suggestion and give my opinion only when asked for it. When one asks you for opinion, most of the time, it does not mean he has no idea about the whole thing. He just wants to hear more views. And if your view coincides with his, definitely it is a win-win siutation - both of you will be happy and confident it is a good idea - If he gets a different opinion, it is for him to reconsider his view. I might also hear his view. Unless I have reasons to support, I would not insist that he takes my idea. You are free to disagree with my opinion above :)
@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
yes its true, that it hurts when people dis agree with our idea, but we also have to be open minded and listen to thers side, because maybe their ideas is much better than ours..I will not really insist on my idea if by suggesting it to them once or twice and still tehy will not listen.. Just want them to know that at least i made my suggestions and whatever the outcome of their choices they made they responsible and be ready for the consequences.
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
You know every individual has the right to agree and disagree to one's point of view. its up for the other person to handle the disageement manifested by the other. In my case, I don't try to argue with somebody. If he disagree, I will just reply: "Okay that's your opinion!. I'll respect your opinion but this is my idea and I know this is right for me!" I will not force them to believe me and therefore they cannot force me to believe on them either. Actually, I don't want them to believe or trust me. All I want is for them to understand my point, try to analize my idea and that's it.
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
i have two distinct reactions about dis agreeing...1st, if its something that is opinion based then its a very welcome note for me, this shows the person is not dumb, 2nd, if its only based of stalling a pertinent action then obviously your disagreement counter acted & disregarded until the current action will be resolved immediately....the only thing i need to be conciously aware of is the distinction of this 2 otherwise it will be a debate of no consequence or advantages - it just becomes a banal exchange of tones no better than chirping or croaking frogs