Are you a faithful partner?

@raj0019 (2627)
Argentina
March 12, 2007 9:41am CST
Would you feel unfaithful if you had frequent fantasies about someone other than your partner? If your partner were having such fantasies, would you want to know about it?
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• United States
12 Mar 07
I believe a certain amount of fantasy is perfectly normal, and it wouldn't bother me. It would become a problem if I started fantasizing constantly about a particular person in my life...(such as a co-worker), and it would become a problem if my fantasy was preferred over my partner. That would be telling me that there is a problem in my relationship. And the same would go for him.
@suhascg (227)
• Australia
12 Mar 07
I would not feel unfaithful if such a thing happened tome.. instead,to be very frank, i would tel my partner about my fantasy and i would expect the same from her..and as long as i'm doing that i think its fine..
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@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
12 Mar 07
I feel unfaithful sometimes,because it happens very often,and often i'm thinking to cheat in real life. If my girl has fantasies ,of course i would like to know about it.
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• India
12 Mar 07
I dont say that iam hundred percent a faithful partner.But iam sure that im 99% a faithful partner.Every human will have few fantacies which we can not control.And I too have many fantcies where I get attracted to many people.But thet attraction remains to me for some interval of time.And no attraction can break my love on my partner.And my partner is welcome to share all his attractions and his fantacies with me.I will surely allow him to share with me.Instead I will be glad to know about his fantacies.
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• United States
12 Mar 07
No I would not feel unfaithful as long as I havent acted on any of the fantasies. Its normal to fantasize about other people. I know my partner does fantasize about other females and NO Id rather NOT know about it. If it's a real person one that he & I know I might start asking questions or thinking maybe its because there's something really going on between them. But no...as long as nobody acts on it then everyone is ok :)
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• United States
12 Mar 07
No I wouldn't. I am very faithful, and have a major problem with Cheaters, so I wouldn't do it.