Will you stay with your parents or move out?

@mic_tcs (264)
Malaysia
March 12, 2007 10:13pm CST
When you got your career and you are married, will you stay with your parents or move out? Why?
3 responses
@thediesel (287)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Personally, I would move out if I get married. I think this is what all married couples should do, build a home of their own. Of course living with your parents have its advantages. I mean you can help each other out Bu t I strongly believe that all married couples should learn to live on their own to learn and grow as a couple.
@mic_tcs (264)
• Malaysia
14 Mar 07
I also believe that married couples should learn to live on their own. But what will happen to our parents? If we left them in the house, then they will be alone. This will be my concern.
@klystron635 (1519)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
It actually depends upon the situation but I'd rather choose moved out. Moving out means you get your own private world. But if my parents will be left alone and they are too old to take care of themselves then I rather choose staying with them even if I am married. I don't want to leave my parents in an uncomfortable position because they didn't do so when I was a kid.
@mic_tcs (264)
• Malaysia
14 Mar 07
Ya, same with u here. If my parents are left alone in the house, then I will rather stay together with them. I just cannot let them be alone in the house.
@kakuemmom (859)
• Canada
13 Mar 07
Well i did move out and lived without my parents for 15 years. Then almost 5 years ago my father wanted to retire but could not afford to and still live comfortably. rent was way to high in the city. My husband and i were also wanted to own and just could not see it happening we had been in the rent trap for way to long. Then we came up with the idea that we would pool our money and look for a house with an in-law apt. It took looking at a lot and I mean a lot of houses but we found the perfect one. They have their own place own entrance and so do we. We knock before we enter each others apt and its worked out great.