Are you keeping your hopes up too high and have high expectations?
March 13, 2007 4:39am CST
Having high expectations is not bad but we must be able to cope up with the fact that most of our expectations would not materialize. That way we feel less frustrated and save your ego from being bruised too much.What are some instances when you had your hopes up too high and expected much but then it turned out the way you didn't want it to be?How did you deal with it?
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16 Mar 07
I have a lot of expectations in my life but it wasnt be the way i want. Its hard to dealt this kind of instances unless, you dont have any expectations for that to happen. Especially if you give all your heart! It will hurt you and give you too much pain that will cause you too much depression and frustrations. Just like my xhusband, i expect him to help us after he will finished his 2nd course for nursing. But until now, he dont have job at all. I was a single parent for 3 years until now! It really broke my heart and sometimes, get me paranoid!