Did you ever backstab by your collegues or someone you are closed with?

Yes, I think most of us have experienced this at one time and it really hurts. I try not to ever say anything negative about my close friends to anyone because I know how much it hurts the other. Usually if someone does this to other close friends then you can bet they are also doing the same thing to you. I have learned to try to stay away from those kind of people.

i think people backstab or badmouth behind our backs is to make them feel good about themselve. ive experience it not so long ago.. this "friend" acts so nice and all infront of me. listen to my problems and always stick by me. but behind my back, she told almost everyone my problem & she also made up awful rumors about me. when i confronted her, she fully denied it. To cut things short here, im not friends with her anymore.she needs to straighten up her act before we can be friends with her again. Trust is important in friendship