Could you date someone ugly?

Philippines
March 13, 2007 9:36pm CST
We are always keen to find someone who fits the cliched despcription of being 'tall, dark & handsome' or 'beautiful & gorgeous'. But there are very few soulmates fitting taht description w/c leads to needless disappointment in our search for perfection.
7 responses
@scutter (11)
• United States
15 Mar 07
I have and I just kept looking at him thinking what I am doing but he was so great to talk too but in person ugh! I should have just followed my instincts but I was trying to see people for who they are not there looks. I do believe you have some kind of attraction to the person. What a mistake I made. :(
• United States
15 Mar 07
absolutely because beuty is in the eye of the beholder. So many times i'll think someone is attractive and a friend wont, or a friend will think someone is hot and I will think theyre ugly. Someones personality truely makes all the difference to me. I'm not being cliche, it really does for me. I actually prefer guys that arent super good looking because in my experence they all turn out to be a$$holes becuase they think they can get any girl and are really cocky. I like guys who are just average looking with great personalities, they are usually great boyfriends and really cute to you :)
@feralwoman (2199)
• Australia
14 Mar 07
What is ugly? What is beautiful? It's all relative and subjective. Ugly is a horrible word to use to describe someone I think. I look for what the person is like on the inside. After all, beauty is only skin deep and doesn't last forever.
@fidainc (410)
• Singapore
14 Mar 07
butt ugly.. no not good looking... yes as much as you want to believe, there are superficial people out there. maybe not 100% superficial but a slight bit of it is in them. always rememebr, external physical beauty doesn't last. for me i look at personality first but its they're too damn ugly that i need to dug my eyes out, then i'll pass... so sorry...
• United States
14 Mar 07
I don't Necessaraly look at a person for how Hot, they really are. It's there personality that's going to make me fall in love with them. I once dated this girl that was kind of big maybe 170 5'8 not sure what the real weight or height was but I didn't care to much. I took allot of heat from my friends over it, but I didn't care. She Soon Left me bedcause of her frinds saying that she was to good for me. take care Jon
• United States
14 Mar 07
I am a person who is more concerned with whats on the INSIDE than the outside. However I do look at physical attributes such as eyes, smile, hair--although someone who is attrative inside is to me is bound to be attractive outside as well. I do have a motto though where physical appearance is concerned---A person needs someone good looking enough to turn them on because any excess causes problems.
• United States
14 Mar 07
I don't look at the outside. The inside is what matters to me. I wouldn't date anyone for what they look like. You can have someone that is really pretty or handsome, but yet on the inside they are truly ugly. I base my opinion on the inside rather than the outside.