feeling to cry, but no shoulders nearby!!!............

India
March 14, 2007 9:12am CST
I am feeling to cry right now, I can't explain how I am feeling. Its just feels like the I am the biggest looser on the planet. It feels that my own belief and my own world is eating me. It seems I am heading no where. I do not want to hear anything bad about the person who had hurt me or made me feel like this so can't disclose too much. Its just that why don't I remember songs and lyrics when somebody really asks me to sing them?? Why am I so stupid?? Why do people not understand what I am feeling?? Why am I such a big looser?? I hate........... I miss............. I am just feeling to cry right now but still no one is there to hear to or share my problems. I just need somebody to vent it all onto. Help me. Show me ways to deal with it or I don't know what to do.
4 responses
@Darkwing (21588)
14 Mar 07
Well, you're wrong on one count, Raphael. The whole of MyLot will lend you their shoulder to cry on, including me. So, go ahead, get rid of all that negativity, and cry away... soak my shoulder. We all get times like this in life, and we have to find our own way of getting around them. It seems that no matter what anybody else says, the whole world is against us, right? Untrue! You have to love yourself before others can love you... find your inner self, get rid of the negativity and learn to love what you find inside. Only you can do that... then hold your head high and take the right fork in your life path. I know you can do it... take some time alone and be strong. You have to be happy with the way you are... you're not a loser... you have the ability to fight for what you want, and win! If you need to talk, feel free to PM me. I'm here, as I'm sure lots of other people in MyLot will say they are. So please, shed that negative thinking and believe in yourself. Brightest Blessings and a big ((((HUG)))).
• India
14 Mar 07
Thanks a lot dear friend for helping me. You are a real good person. Sometimes it just happens in ife that everybody you knew goes away and feel afar, but people you never knew come for your rescue and pull you out. Thanks SO MUCH Take Care May GOD Bless YOU
@Darkwing (21588)
15 Mar 07
You're very welcome, Raphael. You've got a great life ahead of you if you just reach out and take it. People who have gone out of your life must be left behind... sure you'll meet new ones on the way, and some of those who left might even come back into your life at a future point, but you now have to lift your head up high and go forward to find out where your happiness lies. Brightest Blessings.
• India
15 Mar 07
Thanks a lot darkwing pal... You sure helped out a lot and You know what I am ttlay fine now and with a clear view of what I have to do ahead and totaly prepared but still not perfectly prepared. Anyways Thanks A Lot To YOU May GOD Bless YOU
• India
15 Mar 07
i dont ask you what happen to you but i am there for you always when you will call me. sorry friend yesterday i was not here i am in ghaziabad with my friend who got injured in an accident but i can understand you and your feelings since i have gone through all this so many times. friend i am feeling so bad that i was not here yesterday for you. just cry and wash your grin outside. it will help you to feel relax. i wish i will be there with you at this moment. if you wanna share something with me your welcome. you can pm me. may email id is sandeep_2991984@yahoo.co.in.. may god bless you take care your friend sandy
• India
15 Mar 07
Thanks dear friend for your sincere feelings and don't worry cause I understand your problems so no need to ask sorry. Take Care May GOD Bless YOU
@whyaskq (7532)
• Singapore
14 Mar 07
Raphael, go ahead and cry. Release all the spilled voltage inside you. If you need virtual shoulders, there are lot now that you have said it out. No physical shoulders around, never mind. There is always a bolster. Pillows or stuff toys also can. Grab a dolphin. It soothes the nerves. Go to the seaside or hilltop, scream your lungs out. Whatever you do, go ahead and cry it out. It's not easy but try it, it helps.
• India
15 Mar 07
Thanks For your suggestion, I also feel that i will help. ] Thanks May GOD Bless YOU
• Singapore
14 Mar 07
It's called depression, my friend. We all get into such moods from time to time. Hell, I am a 99% depressed kid 99% of the time lol. :P If you are feeling totally wrecked, go have a nice long bath. Then go and sleep a good night's sleep. Tomorrow will almost always be better. ;-)
• India
14 Mar 07
Thjanks for your sincere suggestions Sir. I think I really need to take a long hot water bath. I think it will relax me. Thank YOU May GOD Bless YOU