feeling to cry, but no shoulders nearby!!!............

Well, you're wrong on one count, Raphael. The whole of MyLot will lend you their shoulder to cry on, including me. So, go ahead, get rid of all that negativity, and cry away... soak my shoulder. We all get times like this in life, and we have to find our own way of getting around them. It seems that no matter what anybody else says, the whole world is against us, right? Untrue! You have to love yourself before others can love you... find your inner self, get rid of the negativity and learn to love what you find inside. Only you can do that... then hold your head high and take the right fork in your life path. I know you can do it... take some time alone and be strong. You have to be happy with the way you are... you're not a loser... you have the ability to fight for what you want, and win! If you need to talk, feel free to PM me. I'm here, as I'm sure lots of other people in MyLot will say they are. So please, shed that negative thinking and believe in yourself. Brightest Blessings and a big ((((HUG)))).

i dont ask you what happen to you but i am there for you always when you will call me. sorry friend yesterday i was not here i am in ghaziabad with my friend who got injured in an accident but i can understand you and your feelings since i have gone through all this so many times. friend i am feeling so bad that i was not here yesterday for you. just cry and wash your grin outside. it will help you to feel relax. i wish i will be there with you at this moment. if you wanna share something with me your welcome. you can pm me. may email id is sandeep_2991984@yahoo.co.in.. may god bless you take care your friend sandy

It's called depression, my friend. We all get into such moods from time to time. Hell, I am a 99% depressed kid 99% of the time lol. :P If you are feeling totally wrecked, go have a nice long bath. Then go and sleep a good night's sleep. Tomorrow will almost always be better. ;-)

Raphael, go ahead and cry. Release all the spilled voltage inside you. If you need virtual shoulders, there are lot now that you have said it out. No physical shoulders around, never mind. There is always a bolster. Pillows or stuff toys also can. Grab a dolphin. It soothes the nerves. Go to the seaside or hilltop, scream your lungs out. Whatever you do, go ahead and cry it out. It's not easy but try it, it helps.