When is enough, enough? Is your job worth the stress, and your health?

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I manage a small bar, that is going through growing pains. We have gone through theft issues in the past, and pretty much all safe keeping measures have come from me. To the point that I've told my boss to keep any money seperate from me, besides the main bank account that I have power of attorney over. This morning he calls me and says my envelope from the previous days receipts, was empty. Not even a nickel. I told him it was not possible, and I wanted him to bring everything to me. Because of previous problems I seal my envelope and sign my name right along the flap. After I got off the phone with him, I was physically sick. I knew I didn't take any money never mind all of it. To make a long story short, he called me back 4 hrs later to apologize, he made a mistake and would explain it when he came in. I told him that he actually made me puke, and he said how do you think I feel. When he came in I was busy, he actually left before he explained how he could possibly think that I would steal from him. I spent the hours before he called me back in tears, my situation at home isn't the greatest at the moment. And the worst part is he was my friend before we worked together. He never would have taken on this business unless I worked for him, he said he needed someoned he trusted. I, right now want to quit. I almost called someone in this afternoon, so I could leave right then. Instead, I ended up working 3 hrs after my shift was to end because we were busy. If he wasn't my friend, would've walked out right when the accusation was made. What do I do now?