what is really love?

Philippines
March 15, 2007 10:16am CST
What is really love? I have undergone different relationships, one woman to another. Both have good and bad memories. Each of them, you made sacrifices just to make them happy and help your relationship work. Sometime you get hurt and sometimes you ended up hurting them. But the true meaning of love can never be found in these experiences. Psychologically, I could say LOVE is an indeterminate living substance that reacts with an external stimuli that coexist with the hearts of nature. But this living substance is impossible to find due to our lack of sensitibity. So I guess, love is just a dream, a fraction of our imaginative mind. :(
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30 responses
• Malaysia
16 Mar 07
love to me is just a chemical reaction due to hormonal changes inside our body causing signal to scramble all around our sensory organs.
• United States
16 Mar 07
Since a very long time ago, people have searched for the meaning of love. But even the great philosophers, with their profound definitions, could not fully touch its true essence. In a survey of 4-8 year olds, kids share their views on love. But what do little kids know about love? Read on and be surprised that despite their young and innocent minds, kids already have a simple but deep grasp of that four-letter word. The Meaning of Love is based on the proven principles and methods that are currently being used by those couples who succeed in their relationships. The other 55% who fail in their marriages use the methods that poison and destroy their relationships.
@amaramar (89)
• India
15 Mar 07
From my point of view... to LOVE someone is to make her/him happy... no matter what and where... no matter what the situation or condition is.
• China
16 Mar 07
Individual feeling love. is opppsite oarty each other protects.Happyfor a lifetime!
• India
15 Mar 07
Love is of many types like you say dream,imaginative mind,etc.A real love is one where 2 becomes 1. Yes a real love means caring for the other just as you care for yourself.Love can be better explained as the understanding between the two hearts.When this understanding becomes exactly matching then a real caring love is born between the two hearts. Now a days things are different.People love just because others are loving.Love has become a trend,a qualification to be among friends.A true love is very rare to find.Most of them confuse LUST with LOVE. Love has nothing to do with sacrificing,buying costly stuffs,taking to hotels,etc.Love as i said before is fusing of two hearts together into a single heart.So there should not be any differences between the two hearts..
• India
17 Mar 07
love is not only between living things.it's the care we are showing on everything without expecting anything else other than love
• India
16 Mar 07
Love more than wht u think.All the people in dis world need love....and every one like to be loved by some one...
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@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
16 Mar 07
it really depends on how you look at it yea . for me love is when two people are together in up and down with teir lifes and still together are true love
@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
love is sacrificing and acceptance. sometimes it hurt, sometimes it can make u happy. but what matter is when we love lets make the most out of it, its better to love than not to have love at all.
• Indonesia
16 Mar 07
I think love is a spiritual movement out of one's soul doe to being a part of others. One recognizes her/himself in others's. There can be a perfect love when the movement pours naturally from one's self-fulfillment as a self-giving. What a wonderful love it should be!
@babynanan (133)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Woww!! what a meaning of love you have. I have never known that since today. Well for me, love is very simple. Love is an intagible thing. It can never be touched or seen, it will just be felt. It is the reason why people exist in this world. It may be imaginative to some people but for me, it's not. You can find love on different sources. Maybe from your family or any relationships that you encounter. For me, love is when you accept the differences you have and be contented with each other. Love needs work in order for it develop. :)
• France
16 Mar 07
Love... for me love is when you are in the arms of someone and at this moment you are feeling really well. Love is a feeling very strong who can makes people happy but who can hurt so bad sometimes... specially when you love someone and that this love is not shared. I think when you love someone, you want to stay with this person, shared his life, his sorrow, his joy and everything who are important for the person in question.
• India
16 Mar 07
love is force of attraction between two hearts
@Boulay (5)
• Canada
16 Mar 07
We never will know exactly what love is. But I love the feeling.
@Boulay (5)
• Canada
16 Mar 07
We never will know exactly what love is. But I love the feeling.
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Hmm...Love??? that's a very hard word to define...but for me it is when your doing something but don't have and know any reasons why are you doing such thing...It is when you want someone without any reason and you just feel it...It is when your doing something without asking anything anything in return..It is selfless and willingness to sacrifice for the happiness of the one you love..
• United States
16 Mar 07
Love is being grateful to have someone to wake up with and share your day with. Love is crying at the thought of growing old together and knowing their will be one final time to be together. Love is feeling like that someone is so intertwined in your life that they are the very air you breath. Love is wanting to be with that someone, even though you just got mad at them. Love is saying I'm sorry when you are wrong and sometimes to keep the peace when you are right. Love is being faithful to one person everyday for the rest of your life and doing everything you can to make their lives better and happier. Love is commitment, even when you don't feel about it. Love is still getting excited to see that special someone after years of being together. There is no end to what love is. It is real, but true love is hard to find.
@obzzen (27)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
don't lose your hope in love. maybe it just happen that from you past relationships you didn't get the fulfillment of defining love. just don't define it, feel, share and embrace it.
• China
16 Mar 07
In my view,love someone,you let her go free,let her to be happy,let her feel what is true love from your love to her.
@pidgey (181)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
for me love is like a boat... boat encounters waves that sometimes makes the boat hard to navigate..
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Love is the feeling of being in loved. It cannot be explained by words, but it can be be explained by your feeling!